MYOB or tell the parents about their nanny.

[Anonymous]

Our nanny has mentioned that whenever she sees one of my son’s classmates at a big, public park, the little girl’s nanny is no where in sight. Our nanny has to push the little girl on the swing and keep older kids from taking our toys from her. I have seen this nanny be so rough with both the preschooler and the baby.

Another mom from our class noticed the same.

Would you tell the parents?

[Anonymous]

The mother already knows and doesn’t care. I guarantee it.

[Anonymous]

Tell.

[Anonymous]

It’s like women whose husbands flirt with you: they don’t want to know, and you don’t tell them.

[Anonymous]

Tell! I do t know why everyone is say8ngbthe mom would know already.

[Anonymous]

Depends on where the nanny is!!! Is the nanny there, at the park? Or does the nanny leave the kid at a park alone? Huge difference.

[Anonymous]

Ask your nanny to pay attention to where other nanny goes.

[Anonymous]

Telll! I don’t know how this is a question. Would you want her to you? Then tell!

[Anonymous]

You nanny finds a young child with no caregiver in sight and doesn’t have the slightest concern that the child may be lost?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You nanny finds a young child with no caregiver in sight and doesn’t have the slightest concern that the child may be lost?

OP here. By “not in sight” I mean the nanny is not close by. She was there but a distance from the girl. This is a city park. You can’t be 50 yards from a 3 yr old even if they in your sight.

[Anonymous]

Of course you report a dangerous situation!!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Of course you report a dangerous situation!!

+100

[Anonymous]

Of course you tell.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It’s like women whose husbands flirt with you: they don’t want to know, and you don’t tell them.

This

[Anonymous]

What do you mean rough? Yes - you tell the mom.

We replaced our nanny after it became clear our son was not happy with her anymore; he had started crying a lot when she got to the house. Only later did another mom tell me that she had seen the nanny yelling at my son. I am sure it went on longer than it needed to because it took my husband and I a little while to really act on the tears/unhappiness. It seemed like separation anxiety for a while.

Anyway, that's a long answer to say, please tell.