Hi I am the PP, and frankly, I am not sure I am correct, so please advise! I was referring to the Notre Dame numbers of 33-35, which is from the 2018-19 common data set. https://www3.nd.edu/~instres/CDS/2018-2019/CDS_2018-2019.pdf I do know that 25% had higher than 35%. Just not sure if that means 50% had more than 34%...probably not?
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25% had equal or higher. You can't tell unless there is a mean score given, which not all colleges provide. A mid-50 of 33-35 indicates that the middle 50% of students were in that range. It's not possible to tell more without more data; for instance, (while unlikely) it is mathematically possible that the 35 was the last student and all the rest above had 36, or it is possible that ND had no 36s, or it is possible that every student below the 35 was a 33... However it gives you a good snapshot of the cohort of students, and a "high and tight" mid-50 of 33-35 is very impressive indeed. |
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OP did not prepare his child for college admission and instead had a sole focus on doing well on testing, school and primarily local activities. It seems OP was completely ignorant of the American educational system and did very little or no research. Now OP’s expectations and dreams have been built up over years based on accolades in a very small fish bowl. OP goes to college counseling and explodes. He finds out that other applicants may have advantages his child does not and decides to blame everyone but himself or his child. All of the standards for elite schools have been the same for more than a generation and every year there are a ton of articles about the system. If this was the primary goal of educating your son (not just getting a quality education or creating an honorable adult) OP should have done some homework like all of the white, URM, legacy and athletie parents who put a lot of skin in the game to help their kid get in... doing the travel
Sport curcuit is a family investment, moving or paying for a high school elite enough to be on the admit list is a family investment URMs make (many schools in minority communities don’t have the excellence for the kids to get in...this is a family issue)...people move to remote areas all the time or pay for Distinguishing activities for their future applicant. Finally OP really paid no attention to what the applicant pool looked like and admission standards. Instead he was certain that success at one of the many STEM schools populated with a lot of student like his son would cause his son to be in the 5 percent accepted to An Ivy coming from one of the hardest areas in the country to get into college. |
| Wow the above is harsh. OP doesn't even know yet if reaches will happen or not. Not all Ivies are HYP in terms of hooked majorities. Using the early card, his kid has a decent shot at Penn, Cornell, Dartmouth and Ivy equivalents such as MIT, Caltech and UChicago. Harvey Mudd and CMU CS are also highly respected. A 4.0 unweighted at a STEM magnet is a time intensive, tough accomplishment. |
You could swap the entire first year class at Wash U with the entire first year class at any Ivy and not see an appreciable difference in experience or outcomes for that class. Vanderbilt, the same way. |
OMG! Who are you? Lori Loughlin? So what should the OP's child had done more? I mean besides changing their race? |
And if OP's child could throw a ball into a hoop or kick a ball into a net that makes the child "special"? I agree that no student is entitled to an education at a particular college. It is frustrating however that academic ability and academic achievements are nearly treated with disdain. |
Yep. Parent of a white daughter here who was as high achieving as your son. She didn't apply to Ivys because it wasn't her goal and she was rejected from Rice, Vandy, Tufts...even BC waitlisted her. It was ridiculous. |
All of you people who feel it necessary to mention your race (Asian or white) as if that's the reason your kid didn't get in to Rice (37% white, 24% Asian), Vandy (57% white and 15% Asian), Tufts (56% white, 13% Asian) are probably the same people who dismiss blacks who claim bias when they aren't treated well. Bit hypocritical, don't you think? |
OP Prepared His kid for a top state school and a chance at an ivy. People stategize to go to ivies unless they are formerly homeless or overcoming horrible. circumstances. He has a regular high achieving kid and that is not anyone’s fault his own |
It’s a contribution to the school the OPs kid cannot more. There is nothing distinguishing about OPs kid so it’s a reach. |
A 4.0 will not get you into most state flagships, certainly not UVA. Since OP didn't mention whether the 4.0 is weighted or not BUT mentions AP classes but fails to mention test scores, I am assuming that the 4.0 is weighted and that son didn't do so well in those AP courses, which is also why she doesn't mention test scores. UVA's scores run from 4.10 to 4.47 for top 25% median. |
Bottom line: be a competitive athlete too. |
If that’s what you need to tell yourself well, ok then. |
OP here. The GPA is unweighted. Many of the courses are magnet courses as part of the magnet pathway and more rigorous than the usual AP offerings. Students will take APs and SAT subject tests easily in STEM subjects after taking the magnet courses - even though not all magnet classes is listed as an AP class. Got 5 in all AP exams by Collegeboard and got straight As in every single course. I do not believe that this is a common stat for most students. The fact that my son comes from a middle class Asian-American family is the reason that we have an issue. We all are watching how people get their kids into colleges now, don't we? The story about lack of seats for qualified students is BS. |