Anyone else married to a Beta male?

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Anonymous wrote:My beta lacks a lot of career enthusiasm but he is dependable and will do the job at hand. He won't reach for the next job but he will just keep doing the one he's got at a B+ level. Turns out this is the perfect type of employee for the Federal Gov. So while he doesn't earn much he does have a decent pension and lots of years in. I earn quite a bit more but my job could be gone tomorrow and I'd have to hit the pavement hard to get something similar going. Also no pension. So I think we have a good household balance going. I will say he did actively turn DOWN a promotion and that was hard on me but its his life. He just does NOT desire to ever be someones boss. Its just not in him. Having 32 year olds tell him what to do will never bother him at 47…ever.

You are a piece of shit.

Why do men get all butt hurt about people stating the facts of their lives? It's not like it's all a secret..

For the same reason the wife in the other thread didn't like hearing she is no longer a "lovely wife"?

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Anonymous wrote:What follows Beta male? What's C? That's my life.

Yes C's...they are the he creative types.

Talk about creativity. Professional artists and poets hook up with two or three times as many sex partners as other people, new research indicates.
A study of 425 British men and women found the creative types averaged between four and ten partners, while the less creative folks had typically had three.
The more creative the study participants, the more partners they'd had.
Previous studies have hinted at all this, and anyone mingling seriously with artists might have suspected as much. But this is the first study to provide firm evidence, the researchers say.

http://www.livescience.com/3938-creative-types-sex-partners.html

Studies show the alpha male has less sex and is usually raising kids that are not his. LOL

My C Type isn't creative. Crusty and in denial maybe. Creatice not.

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Anonymous wrote:Who wants a totally alpha male around here? Wouldn't it mean they are 1) aggressive 2) assholish 3) won't want to talk or connect 4) hangs out with the boys/gym too much 5) does nothing at home 6) wants to be in charge all the time?

I mean...do what you want, but definitely not my type.

Well, somebody's having sex with these guys. At the end of the day, more women are having sex with the jocks than with the nerds.

Are you still in high school? How are you certain of this statement?

High school and early twenties is when this stuff matters the most. It's when women are at their most attractive and, therefore, have the most options. Looking at what they choose when the most options are available shows their true sexual preferences. And, for the most part, as you head into late twenties and beyond, people are settling down and just having sex with one person. To judge from a lot of these threads, when women settle down with the beta-male-provider, the sex stops or gets reduced to once a week or less duty sex.

Good grief, it's all about the sex right? I think you're not an alpha at all, you just have unmet sexual needs and need to justify failures on that front on some weird alpha beta sociology thing.

Also, it's laughable that you think high school kids are at their "most attractive." Most kids are still developing at that stage, and between the pimples and short males and awkward females it's more of a freak show than anything else for a lot of kids. Nor, should you be relying on high school kids' preferences as "true sexual preferences." Just hilariously terrible reasoning. There are a lot of social, emotional factors at play in high school. Just going by my own high school experiences - our social circles were dominated by SES issues and less by who was a jock and who wasn't...actually all the football and basketball jocks were AA and they really had their own social sphere separate from us. High school is where the embarrassing life mistake are made, not where the "true choices" were. LMAO.

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Anonymous wrote:My beta lacks a lot of career enthusiasm but he is dependable and will do the job at hand. He won't reach for the next job but he will just keep doing the one he's got at a B+ level. Turns out this is the perfect type of employee for the Federal Gov. So while he doesn't earn much he does have a decent pension and lots of years in. I earn quite a bit more but my job could be gone tomorrow and I'd have to hit the pavement hard to get something similar going. Also no pension. So I think we have a good household balance going. I will say he did actively turn DOWN a promotion and that was hard on me but its his life. He just does NOT desire to ever be someones boss. Its just not in him. Having 32 year olds tell him what to do will never bother him at 47…ever.

You are a piece of shit.

Written by weak wristed beta...

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Anonymous wrote:What a troll post.

Stfu she isn't trolling. It's not trolling if it's true. Stop using words you don't understand and go back to oiling your guns and scouring Facebook for you ex's posts.

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Anonymous wrote:Who refers to men as alphas and betas??

+1 and what's the equivalent for women?

There really is. O equivalent. Queen bee doesn't work because a strong female can dominate a situation even in the presence of a queen be type. Men tend to be so straightforward in their personalities that the alpha designation does in fact work as a loose category. I'm married to a beta. I would consider having an affair with an alpha because my DH has no sex drive.

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Anonymous wrote:This whole notion that income corresponds with alpha is way off. Betas tend to earn more.

Bingo!!

If you met your husband in DC he's automatically a Beta by the way....

You may be onto something with that. The government lawyer archetype beta is rewarded for his charm here with usually a sexually aggressive, smart, educated wife--this translates into a higher income bracket lifestyle. Alpha's have personality problems --aggression, depression, narcissism. They marry a stupid trophy wife and trade her in every 8 years as they make terrible husbands. So, yeah.

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Anonymous wrote:Who refers to men as alphas and betas??

Shockingly, my wife does, although only about a particularly weak husband of a friend of hers. I hope that means she thinks I'm an alpha.

Does she have an AP?

Supposedly no.

What makes him weak?

Won't make a decision. Wife bosses him around. Overly emotional. Not career driven. Roomy khakis.

I had better throw out my roomy khakis.

I'm basically a beta, but I wear roomy khakis because I need more room down there, which is kind of alpha I guess.

Not if what you're needing room for your "frontbutt". Room khakis are for front-but, so not alpha

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Anonymous wrote:My DW doesn't categorize it as Beta and Alpha but has said that she likes my calmness laid back more beta characteristics, on a daily life/social basis but more alpha characteristics in the bedroom and when certain situations warrant. Inserting humble brag, I pulled elderly handicapped neighbor out of her house when her kitchen caught on fire and my DW said it was sexy and manly and thanked me with mind blowing daily sex for a few weeks afterward.

A woman with a fire fighter fetish. Dime a dozen.

Go away.

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Anonymous wrote:Beta is code for dishrag

Enjoy calling the repair guy to fix your stuff

See, this is the thing that pisses me off. My DW somehow expects me yo be not onl the breadwinner with a he 80 hour workweek, but the plumber, electrician, refrigerator repairman, lawn service, car mechanic AND to help with cleaning the house too. I tell her she can have a husband or a plumber. If she wants both, she can marry a plumber.

So you're not a handyman, and likely neither was your father.

I pity your wife if she grew up in a household where her father had every power tool, designed their home addition, built decks, piers, and could fix broken appliances, basic electrical and plumbing, could fix car engines and maintain cars and boats himself. Oh, and played racquet sports, softball and scuba from age 6-75 yo. Oh, and made time to teach his kids all things and love his wife.

Get some pride in yourself. Seriously, if you were airdropped into Survial Island and all you could do is suffer withdrawal from your iPhone, Siri and GPS, you are a Beta.

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Oh and run three consecutive startups, easily 69-89 hours a seven day week, waking up v early.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Beta is code for dishrag

Enjoy calling the repair guy to fix your stuff

See, this is the thing that pisses me off. My DW somehow expects me yo be not onl the breadwinner with a he 80 hour workweek, but the plumber, electrician, refrigerator repairman, lawn service, car mechanic AND to help with cleaning the house too. I tell her she can have a husband or a plumber. If she wants both, she can marry a plumber.

So you're not a handyman, and likely neither was your father.

I pity your wife if she grew up in a household where her father had every power tool, designed their home addition, built decks, piers, and could fix broken appliances, basic electrical and plumbing, could fix car engines and maintain cars and boats himself. Oh, and played racquet sports, softball and scuba from age 6-75 yo. Oh, and made time to teach his kids all things and love his wife.

Get some pride in yourself. Seriously, if you were airdropped into Survial Island and all you could do is suffer withdrawal from your iPhone, Siri and GPS, you are a Beta.

Bless your heart.