Baby switched at birth at Sibley

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:The most disturbing aspect is this b*tch of an OP hounded another new mom. It wasn't her fault and none of your f'in business is she did have ebola or even HIV and breastfed your kid.

OP you are just such a selfish person. Send that woman some flowers and note of apology.

Then I suggest you offer a random stranger a sip of your water on the Metro. And drink out of it immediately after they take a sip.

Craig, get a hold of yourself. It's very unlikely from one round of breastfeeding would have transmitted anything to your kid, including HIV. But that didn't actually happen. You and your wife are very self-centered people.

So you went around room to room asking all the new moms if they had been given the wrong baby by mistake? Please send notes of apologies to all the new moms you harassed.

Not the PP. Seriously, what is WRONG with you? You think the way Sibley acted is OKAY!?

You are messed up.

I'm going to check with Jeff to see how many of the pro-Sibley/OP-attack comments are you. I'm guessing almost all of them.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I also can't believe you hounded the poor other woman and got all up in her face about formula feeding! Sorry but you come across as a complete crazy person.

Where did you see that? She had every right to find out what exactly happened to her child while this stranger had her. Are you insane???

OP - please disregard the bitches here. I would have been mortified if someone gave my child to a stranger no matter how short the "visit" was. It is absolutely okay that you spoke to this woman since the hospital was not giving you the whole story. I am sorry that this happened to you. They should definitely have better security measures and maybe now they will.

Oh give me a fucking break. No, you don't ever have the right to track down and harass another patient. Not even to confirm your precious snowflake was fed formula, horrifying as that is to contemplate.

Exactly. And her douchey husband bothered more than one new mother b/c they didn't know which mom it was.

OP, I hope this woman and the other blameless patients sue you for harassment and violation of HIPPA. You really are the embodiment of what people mean by "entitled."

Do you know the author personally and not like her or her husband? That's the only reason I can think that you are being so dismissive and really cruel.

I would be worried and upset if this happened. I see nothing wrong with her writing about the experience to warn others. It could have happened right before the other mother was leaving and she could have gone home with the wrong child. The hospital was lucky that the mistake was caught quickly. I too would also want to talk with the other mother, especially since the hospital was giving different stories at different times.

You don't get to know my personal medical history because the hospital accidentally gave me your baby for a few minutes. I wouldn't have wanted to talk to you if I was the other mother.

[Anonymous]

No one thinks the way sibley acted is OK. They think some of OP's actions in response were completely inappropriate.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The most disturbing aspect is this b*tch of an OP hounded another new mom. It wasn't her fault and none of your f'in business is she did have ebola or even HIV and breastfed your kid.

OP you are just such a selfish person. Send that woman some flowers and note of apology.

Then I suggest you offer a random stranger a sip of your water on the Metro. And drink out of it immediately after they take a sip.

I'm confused, did the babies share a bottle? I don't understand your point. (Not the poster you are quoting).

The point is you are expecting your baby to be handled by vetted people who are healthy and have been vaccinated against major illnesses. The baby goes from you to the nurse to a doctor back to you to a nurse back to you to a doctor then to your spouse or your mother back to you etc. You know at all times who handles the baby.

Hospitals are dicey places. A friend of mine contracted a staph infection in her arm from a hospital bed rail.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The most disturbing aspect is this b*tch of an OP hounded another new mom. It wasn't her fault and none of your f'in business is she did have ebola or even HIV and breastfed your kid.

OP you are just such a selfish person. Send that woman some flowers and note of apology.

Then I suggest you offer a random stranger a sip of your water on the Metro. And drink out of it immediately after they take a sip.

Craig, get a hold of yourself. It's very unlikely from one round of breastfeeding would have transmitted anything to your kid, including HIV. But that didn't actually happen. You and your wife are very self-centered people.

So you went around room to room asking all the new moms if they had been given the wrong baby by mistake? Please send notes of apologies to all the new moms you harassed.

Not the PP. Seriously, what is WRONG with you? You think the way Sibley acted is OKAY!?

You are messed up.

I'm going to check with Jeff to see how many of the pro-Sibley/OP-attack comments are you. I'm guessing almost all of them.

What Sibley did definitely NOT okay. What the author and her husband did, definitely NOT okay either. They should have contacted the Ombudsman for the hospital. BTW, I haven't made any "pro" Sibley comments on this thread.

[Anonymous]

Op-I am absolutely shocked at how many pps are giving you such a hard time. Also shocked by the incredibly unprofessional way it was handled.

[Anonymous]

Bringing attention to the fact that one of the major delivery hospitals switched babies and then tried to cover it up is totally ok. What Sibley did is not ok.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Bringing attention to the fact that one of the major delivery hospitals switched babies and then tried to cover it up is totally ok. What Sibley did is not ok.

That's not what happened.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I also can't believe you hounded the poor other woman and got all up in her face about formula feeding! Sorry but you come across as a complete crazy person.

Where did you see that? She had every right to find out what exactly happened to her child while this stranger had her. Are you insane???

OP - please disregard the bitches here. I would have been mortified if someone gave my child to a stranger no matter how short the "visit" was. It is absolutely okay that you spoke to this woman since the hospital was not giving you the whole story. I am sorry that this happened to you. They should definitely have better security measures and maybe now they will.

Oh give me a fucking break. No, you don't ever have the right to track down and harass another patient. Not even to confirm your precious snowflake was fed formula, horrifying as that is to contemplate.

You are crazy and it's SO showing. OP was relieved to find out that nothing worse happened than her baby got formula. She didn't track the mother down bc she was worried about here baby being given formula. She tracked the mother down bc she had no idea what happened and she could tell the hospital was lying. If the hospital was lying to me, yes I'd be super worried and try to figure out the truth from someone other hanging e hospital.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Fuck my words, this thread will be a classic.

I meant to say "mark" but this is funnier anyway.

I am for sure going to make "fuck my words" part of my daily lexicon, PP!

I love it!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I also can't believe you hounded the poor other woman and got all up in her face about formula feeding! Sorry but you come across as a complete crazy person.

Where did you see that? She had every right to find out what exactly happened to her child while this stranger had her. Are you insane???

OP - please disregard the bitches here. I would have been mortified if someone gave my child to a stranger no matter how short the "visit" was. It is absolutely okay that you spoke to this woman since the hospital was not giving you the whole story. I am sorry that this happened to you. They should definitely have better security measures and maybe now they will.

Oh give me a fucking break. No, you don't ever have the right to track down and harass another patient. Not even to confirm your precious snowflake was fed formula, horrifying as that is to contemplate.

You are crazy and it's SO showing. OP was relieved to find out that nothing worse happened than her baby got formula. She didn't track the mother down bc she was worried about here baby being given formula. She tracked the mother down bc she had no idea what happened and she could tell the hospital was lying. If the hospital was lying to me, yes I'd be super worried and try to figure out the truth from someone other hanging e hospital.

What did she expect? That her baby contracted ebola from this other mother? Her baby was obviously fine and unharmed.

The point is, if the hospital isn't being truthful, they have a process for complaints, inquiries. Going around a maternity ward b/c of the hospital's mix up, asking other new moms intrusive questions is rude. Grilling a mother who was brought the wrong baby about her health status also rude. I agree with PP, the other mom handled it with grace.

[Anonymous]

FORMULA?!?!?! I'm sorry, your baby's virgin gut is ruinied now. Best just give her back to that other mom and try again with a new baby. Maybe you can try harder and give birth at home next time.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:FORMULA?!?!?! I'm sorry, your baby's virgin gut is ruinied now. Best just give her back to that other mom and try again with a new baby. Maybe you can try harder and give birth at home next time.

Did you even read the article? The OP was relieved that the other mom had not breastfed her baby.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I also can't believe you hounded the poor other woman and got all up in her face about formula feeding! Sorry but you come across as a complete crazy person.

Where did you see that? She had every right to find out what exactly happened to her child while this stranger had her. Are you insane???

OP - please disregard the bitches here. I would have been mortified if someone gave my child to a stranger no matter how short the "visit" was. It is absolutely okay that you spoke to this woman since the hospital was not giving you the whole story. I am sorry that this happened to you. They should definitely have better security measures and maybe now they will.

Oh give me a fucking break. No, you don't ever have the right to track down and harass another patient. Not even to confirm your precious snowflake was fed formula, horrifying as that is to contemplate.

Exactly. And her douchey husband bothered more than one new mother b/c they didn't know which mom it was.

OP, I hope this woman and the other blameless patients sue you for harassment and violation of HIPPA. You really are the embodiment of what people mean by "entitled."

Do you know the author personally and not like her or her husband? That's the only reason I can think that you are being so dismissive and really cruel.

I would be worried and upset if this happened. I see nothing wrong with her writing about the experience to warn others. It could have happened right before the other mother was leaving and she could have gone home with the wrong child. The hospital was lucky that the mistake was caught quickly. I too would also want to talk with the other mother, especially since the hospital was giving different stories at different times.

+1000

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I also can't believe you hounded the poor other woman and got all up in her face about formula feeding! Sorry but you come across as a complete crazy person.

Where did you see that? She had every right to find out what exactly happened to her child while this stranger had her. Are you insane???

OP - please disregard the bitches here. I would have been mortified if someone gave my child to a stranger no matter how short the "visit" was. It is absolutely okay that you spoke to this woman since the hospital was not giving you the whole story. I am sorry that this happened to you. They should definitely have better security measures and maybe now they will.

Oh give me a fucking break. No, you don't ever have the right to track down and harass another patient. Not even to confirm your precious snowflake was fed formula, horrifying as that is to contemplate.

You are crazy and it's SO showing. OP was relieved to find out that nothing worse happened than her baby got formula. She didn't track the mother down bc she was worried about here baby being given formula. She tracked the mother down bc she had no idea what happened and she could tell the hospital was lying. If the hospital was lying to me, yes I'd be super worried and try to figure out the truth from someone other hanging e hospital.

What did she expect? That her baby contracted ebola from this other mother? Her baby was obviously fine and unharmed.

The point is, if the hospital isn't being truthful, they have a process for complaints, inquiries. Going around a maternity ward b/c of the hospital's mix up, asking other new moms intrusive questions is rude. Grilling a mother who was brought the wrong baby about her health status also rude. I agree with PP, the other mom handled it with grace.

But none of their processes are working! Their process does not include a keystone cops style cover-up, presumably. It's also ironic that so many pps are suggesting op should be all roll with the punches about her newborn's walkabout are acting like asking other new moms questions (admittedly a bit awkward/slightly weird) was like going in like there like a Hannibal Lector.