| School issue and a problem with the parents at the school, not an AAP issue and not a district issue. |
Really? You're attributing a school's high SOL scores to the AAP kids alone? Give me a break. Do you know how many very bright kids are in Gen Ed? I, for one, couldn't care less about Great Schools numbers and I find parents who base their lives around them to be pathetic. I think this county is in dire need of some boundary adjustments and rezoning, frankly. I'd be very happy to see all kids return to their base schools and rezone if necessary. A fresh start is what FCPS sorely needs. |
So what you really want is for the imbalance to go the other way. So your GE kids significantly outnumber the AAP kids, and they can taunt the nerds? I have seen and heard of AAP nastiness too. But in our Center, it's from high SES GE kids directed at AAP kids and telling them they are not wanted. I wonder where that attitude comes from? |
True. And I don't see the problem with redistricting. It could be exactly what this county needs. |
We'd be very happy to welcome any kids who were redistricted to our school. It would once again be a "community" school, which would be great. |
Check out the Sangster model. Plenty of exceptional gen ed kids who are school leaders, academic leaders and all around great kids. Lots of mingling between students, in specials and activities. For example, the 6th graders go on a class leadership type field trip and all the kids are blended in smaller groups with mixes of all classes. The classes all display the same projects in the halls. The staff works very hard, especially at the administrative level, to make the kids all "Sangster" kids, not "us" and "them" groupings. Do they fail sometimes or are somenkids on both ends occasionally mean to one another? Of course. But the school doesit as well as any school could. Exceptional parents, base families, AAP families and overall wonderful kids...in both programs. It says a lot about the community as a whole and the graciousness of the families assigned to Sangster when you see how all the kids shine at that school. Knowing how many stars and class leaders come from the gen ed kids at Sangster, I find your post so rude and insulting to all base kids. Your experience sounds miserable, but I have to wonder how much of that is colored by an attitude that is trying to find fault at every turn. But your experience is not universal, so please quit acting as if it is. At least be reasonable enough to state that your experience is unique to your school and that it might not reflect all center schools. |
Not AAP kids alone. But yes, I think AAP kids taking compressed math inflate a school pass advanced numbers-- especially in math. And you may say you don't care, but people pay a premium to live in the best possible school zone. If you don't, you should really sell your house and move to a Great Schools 5 area-- you'll fund your kid's college education on the difference in housing prices. |
No one should be taunting anyone, first of all. Secondly, AAP kids aren't "nerds" (your word, by the way) - most are as mainstream as any other kids, due to how many have been admitted in recent years. AAP kids are not a majority in real life. They just aren't. Why should they be a majority in any school? The way centers are set up, AAP kids somehow look like the "norm," while Gen Ed kids are the exception. |
Maybe it's nice for kids who aren't normal to have a place where they are. |
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So, it's an administrative problem. But certain centers are absolutely well known for the total imbalance and toxic environment, yet FCPS (and certain school administrators) sits silent.
I wasn't actually asking AAP parents specifically to do anything about it. My original post was more annoyance at people in other centers saying "well, my school isn't like that..." OK, but several others are and it would be appreciated if it was actually acknowledged and maybe there is some support in the community to get those centers some help to fix the mess of FCPS's making. |
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I'm going to say - we thought we did the research we needed to do. People said how great our neighborhood school was. We didn't know if our kid would be AAP or not, but we thought it best to move into the zone for the center just in case so she wouldn't have to move schools.
We didn't know what questions to ask, honestly. We had no idea. We didn't grow up here, we didn't know what we didn't know. We had no idea how big the imbalance was....and it got worse in the 4 years since we've been here. Hindsight is 20/20. |
Again. Where is this? Name the schools. It has to be obvious to those who attend if there is a "resulting air of superiority that runs rampant." |
Your problem is with the AAP students on the border. You don't have a problem with the highly gifted kids, and you keep bringing up the very bright GE kids. So your issue is right at the dividing line. Interesting. |
Again - with a very tiny exception, the vast majority of AAP kids are normal. There's a huge overlap between AAP and Gen Ed kids, as all of us know. If we were talking about GT, from more than a decade ago, then yes, those kids were exceptional. But the pendulum has swung so far in the other direction that the AAP of today is simply not a gifted model any longer. There is no need for FCPS to continue creating an artificial "peer group" for a massive group of basically mainstream kids. |