| I don't think it's a function of race. It's a function of how involved the parents are, and the value they place on education. I'm AA and my kids are doing very well academically in FCPS public schools. I am very involved with their academics, and don't expect the school to do everything. My kids went into K reading, as many kids in this area do. I think as long as you don't assume that because you are in a "great school" you can just assume they will get a great education and the school will do it all, your kids will do as well a their classmates. I think if you value education and are an active participant in your children's education, they will also do extremely well at a lower performing school, they would just be exposed to a different environment, and may not have as many peers with the same academic goals. Bottom line, outcome depends on how much the parents value education, are active participants and don't assume the school is solely responsible, rather than on race. Your post is basically asking whether your kids are screwed no matter what school they go to and the answer is it, in large part, depends on you and your commitment to their academic achievement. |
" We moved our AA sons to private. The oldest was in MCPS magnet program, but there was only one other black boy in his entire magnet class of 100 students. He was unhappy socially. Our other son is a very athletic, active child and the public school kept having him miss recess or stay after school for things like throwing an eraser or pushing his buddy while in line. The school was very rules oriented. It seemed like they spent a lot of energy controlling kids rather than teaching. The private they are in has a much larger cohort of black high achieving kids. They have much more freedom to move around, interact with others, and express themselves. They have only 8-12 kids in class and their teachers know them well. They like their learning styles and my kids' self images and motivation has improved. The English, math, history and foreign language classes are superior and the emphasis is not on standardized testing, but instead on mastering fundamental concepts and broadening the curriculum. Lastly the private school has a Black Student Club where race is openly discussed and the kids feel they can say things about the school and society and feel supported. I actually used to be a huge supporter of public schools and still believe we should work to cut down class size and improve them, and help teachers do better, but MCPS seems to emphasizing testing over education. |
What percentage are you talking about in terms of minorities being just 'a handful'? 1%, 10%? |
+1. OP, are you kids light black or dark black? And, are their ears pointy or not? |
Of course it makes a difference. Kids notice when they are the only one. |
I don't know if you've heard, but there's thing called institutionalized racism. |
This is what we did. We looked at an area where there was enough diversity in FCPS but the black and Hispanic students were not struggling and were not all uniformly lower SES. So far we are happy and every parent that we have met of color Asian, Hispanic or black said the exact same thing to us unpromoted - that they chose the area for the fact that there was diversity but all the parents of color seemed dedicated to their children's education. |
Kids also notice if all the other kids that look like you are not doing well or are not focused on college. That type of attitude is the type of attitude that those of use who have achieved through education do. It want our children to have to contend with. The notion that to speak properly is to be 'white' and the pressure on minority students of lower SES to conform to lowered expectations are the type of environments that I would want to avoid for my child. It sucks but to some degree it's true. |
Yes, but what if the peer group that surrounds them do not have that same type of positive environment at home? |