Huh? Post at 11:12 on page three said "partner" "husband" and "queer".... |
Yep. I'll wait for you to put it together. Regardless, this is not the issue of the post except for the part about staying in MD. The VA posters did point out some advances for the LGB part of the LGBTQ but that alone would not help us much. |
Thank you so much! We shall be obsessing for the next year while we squirrel away our funds. |
OP, I am that VA poster and the reason I would not consider living in MD in the DC area (especially if this is going to be your "forever" house) is because of the amazing public universities that Virginia has for in-state students. If you have kids and eventually want them to go to college, you really cannot beat Virginia on the east coast for college. A huge consideration for me - my dream is to move back west to the Pacific Northwest or Mountain West, but my DH's family lives nearby and if we are going to stay on the east coast, it's going to be in Virginia because of this. |
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Regarding one bathroom vs. 2 bathrooms: I'm guessing that OP and her partner are women and don't spend nearly as much time pooping as my husband does. Husband's poop time/poop stink is the reason to have at least 2 toilets in the house.
In general, I admire OP's spunk and I think the tiny houses are darling. I am, however, slightly suspicious of a parent of two kids under the age 4 thinking she has a firm grasp on the type of space she'll want/need as the kids grow. But hey, follow your dream, OP, and see how it goes for you. If it were me, I'd try to keep just enough of a next egg to allow myself flexibility if needed. |
Lol! We have no firm grasp. Only lots of hope that we are doing right by them and will not crash the ship. This will likely not be our forever home. We dream of returning to the West Coast but all of the grandparents are here. So, for the foreseeable future, we will be here too. - OP |
But it was you. You've been going off on rants that are actually quite scary. I don't think it would serve you well to live in a small confined space with others. It would put them in danger because you are yes, acting like you are coming unhinged. Here's a clue: Nothing in Montgomery County can be done without a permit. And yes, I've worked on infill lots in the county again, 15 years. Good luck. But it is you who is humoring us. If you don't see that then you really do need to get a clue. And a therapist. |
Ok, realtor. I think it best we part ways. You need someone to love you. You seem like a very sad person and a bit too on the edge. Best of luck. If anyone else has any knowledge about the infill lot option, we'd appreciate it! Thanks all for your help. |
| ^^ that was OP |
| The fact is that it makes little sense to build a small place after going through the permitting process and paying all the fees etc... In fact you may have trouble securing a loan because the bank may not believe it will appraise for a proper price. This is why you see people trying to build the largest home possible because the cost difference is much smaller after you get the initial foundation built. |
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I have not read all of this thread, about 1/2. But I think if the OP wants to build this small house, Takoma Park is probably not the place to do it. For one thing, don't you have to get a permit to cut down trees? If what the OP really wants is a big garden, and if it is for fruits and veggies, then you need sun. Takoma Park is full of shade and shade gardens and they are not going to let you cut down trees.
I think further out in the country is what you need. But close in Silver Spring and Takoma Park are probably not the best place. If you want to stay in close, then choose Silver Spring over TP, because of the sun/light and tree issue. |
I triple highlighted this for you. 1200 sqft is too small for you but yet an even smaller place will be perfect? How exactly will that happen if you couldn't stand being in a space that many people live in long term with 2 children? |
We heard it was more like $50-75k. Every architect we met discouraged us from starting completely over mostly because of the very small lot and modern setbacks. And the additional cost of starting new. Close-in VA $650k house a few years ago when market was down $300k for major reno Went from 900 sq ft to very functional and attractive 1100 sq ft Most people think we're nuts to live in a such a small space with our 2 kids and 2 dogs, but we love it. We previously lived in a larger home further out and felt like we had so much space that wasn't efficiently used. It was very satisfying to downsize - a refreshing lifestyle change. Good luck, OP! |
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I obsessed over these plans a lot before we did our project:
http://www.thesmallhousecatalog.com/ http://www.tumbleweedhouses.com/products/b53/ http://www.perfectlittlehouse.com/ |