Yup! Most people in this country are barely surviving, don't take many vacations (if they do, it's driving a few hours away for a long weekend or a rental for 1 week), they certainly are not dining out all the time or traveling the world. I have family like that, and a treat for them is every 2-3 weeks going out to Chili's or equivalent for dinner and their vacations are to see family. Never left the USA and haven't taken what most of us would call a "real vacation" ever in their lives. |
But plenty who are High earning do not manage to save. Instead they live above their means (or utilizing 95%+ for daily living) and have shockingly little to show for it. Whereas we owned our first home outright by age 40, and paid cash for cars starting at age 30. Still lived nicely but focused on saving so that now in our 50s, we are retired, and can basically do whatever we want. However, many friends on a similar path still have to work because they need to (know one specifically who doesn't Own their home, is trying to cash flow medical school for a kid who has wanted to be a doctor since toddler age, and is in debt for the house, and much more---despite making similar to us). |
DP: It depends for each family. For us, we plan to spend $500K/year in current dollars. We can do that mostly from our earnings, so principle is maintained. And we figure that spending level will go down a bit once we hit 70 (doubt we will be traveling 150+ days of the year at that age---doing it in our 50/60s while we are healthy and can). Could we live on less? Of course! But we planned for this and didn't retire until we could have what we wanted. |
That says more about you than the PP |
The pressure to keep up with everyone at these income levels is very real. It takes a special mindset to accept being treated as if you’re financially struggling by friends and family because you live modestly. |
Exactly! Because most worth that much in their 40s don't want to live on $50K per year. They have kids, family, and want to enjoy lifestyle they are accustomed to. Also most who are worth that much in 40s actually like what they do and are good at it, so why would they give it up so early? |
This! College is a tool. What you do with it while there and beyond is up to you. But fact remains, most careers require a college degree outside the trades, and not having one makes becoming a higher earner difficult (and most people don't want to be in body breaking trades in their 50s+ so it's useful to have another path) |
The professional class doesn’t understand a substantial number of trades people (the good ones, who go to trade school and make a career of it) are also entrepreneurs who end up selling their roofing company they scaled to 50 employees over 30 years for $30M to a PE firm when it’s time to retire. While making millions a year before that. You think that owner is breaking their back at 50? You see the grunt who shows up at your house to fix the toilet, not the owner who is at their Naples winter house. |
Well we have never caved to "trying to impress others". We both grew up LMC/MC, graduated college with debt and worked hard to quickly pay it off and then live moderately while we saved. Then we saved immediately for college once kids arrived, because we knew they wouldn't get financial aid. Once it became apparent they might want graduate school, we saved for that as well (although not all in 529 in case they don't use it for school). And yes, most of our friends likely thought we have much less than we actually have. We don't care. What we care about is that we lived well within our means and fiscally sound. |
Totally understand that. Also I"m smart enough to realize that most Trades people do NOT do that. You need a special mindset and skill set to be an entrepreneur, and likely some business courses to build a trade company so that it's worth millions. Most own a smaller business (if they are capable of doing it and have the means) and work until they are much older as managing it because they wont' get millions if they sell. |
And he screws over the 50 employees when he does that because PE runs it into the ground, takes its losses and moves on. This is not a win. A lot of people confused on this thread. |
Also, very few Trade owners manage to sell for this much. Most struggle to keep company afloat. You can earn a good living, but you rarely get rich |
| I don’t consider this over saving. You have done well but I would not classify it as over saving. Just quit at 50. |
| You are not over saving unless you are eating Spam! Building up a big nest egg early gives you incredible freedom to do so many things. I couldn’t fathom retiring in my 40s or early 50s. We always saved a high percent of our income but we lived comfortably. Finally we decided to exit full time work because we had all the money we needed but we wanted to enjoy our lives. |
College is a scam. It’s for morons. Bill Gates and Steve Jobs never graduated from college. |