I understand that. I guess my point was more of it seems like a waste of a lot of money to send a kid to a private high school like that just to have them go to some second tier shitty school that is no better than many public schools but just doesn’t have a lot of diversity or poor kids. It makes no sense to me. But it’s not my money. |
| I’m interested to know the % of DCUM posters who had children who applied ED? And were accepted? You all seem very invested in keeping this crappy system. |
+1 !! |
This! ED simply means you have a clear first choice, factoring in anticipated financial aid. We applied ED and received aid that corresponded to the NPC estimate. If a kid doesn't have a first choice or wants to drop tiers to chase merit, that's a matter of priorities. Merit, by definition, is independent of need. There's nothing unfair about rewarding kids who've done their financial aid homework and are willing to commit to a given school. Anyone can do their homework and proceed accordingly. |
If you don't like the system, then work to change it. Deception and dishonesty are never ok. |
What do you mean? The 17-year-olds can choose to not lock themselves after seeing it's unaffordable. They get to consider choices such as whether and where to ED. When I go to a car dealer and listen to deals, I can choose not to commit $$$$ and just walk out. |
What does have your cake and eat it too mean in this context? |
| Abolish ED, limit everyone to 10 applications, limit SAT/ACT sittings to 2, get rid of the “commitment” system for Division III athletics, and maybe that can go some ways in making the process the way it was circa 1990- not perfect but much more transparent (even without internet!) and less stressful. |
I posted earlier: my kid applied ED and received the financial aid we expected per the NPC. Why is it a crappy system? Saved them a ton of work and stress, and the financial aid was the best among the schools we researched. It simply requires doing some homework and comparing the financial aid before deciding whether to apply early. |
Looked at the school profile and this must be a big deal for them. Tulane is one of the most popular colleges for Colorado Academy. A few other colleges at 12 enrolled and then only Colorado above that in terms of enrollment. |
NPC. NPC. NPC. You just don’t like what the NPC says you owe because you don’t manage your money wisely. |
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I feel like posters whining about ED aren't willing to do the work for each school's NPC then compare. It's neither rocket science nor mysterious. You know ahead of time which school will give you the most aid, and you factor that into the decision-making process. The formula does NOT CHANGE whether ED or RD.
If your child doesn't have a clear first choice, why resent mine who does? |
For them to take this step, I’m guessing it was a more systemic issue than just one kid. |
Your cake = get to ED and enjoy slight bump in admission chances Eat it too = get to shop for merit after accepted ED |
| That’s it. ED is for kids who have a clear first choice. Some kids know that by September if their senior year. Hopefully they have visited the school, researched financial aid, etc. by then. The kids who are less than 100% committed to any choice should not ED, just because they’re chasing prestige and want to avoid the unpredictability of the RD lottery. It may be hard to have to wait a few more months for a college decision. It harder to have buyer’s remorse and be enrolled at a college chosen for the wrong reasons. |