Did the student ask for help or did mom "assign"? |
The tippy top have tutors because the school can’t teach to their potential. But in that case a lot of them get free tutoring for merit or financial charity reasons.
A friend of mine who got one of the youngest PhDs in history was tutored by a professor (for free) to develop his talent. |
It’s true that some parent are insecure about the social cost of morons like you stigmatizing education. |
I’m an exec. We tutor others and get tutored constantly, and have all the way through our careers. When you are an elite it’s called mentoring, not tutoring, |
My kid and their friends winning national awards have tutors. |
If a kid is struggling and could benefit from help of a tutor, I understand that.
But so often this is more likely the scenario, esp in private schools/affluent neighborhoods: Parents hire multiple tutors for a DC even when DC is not struggling. The kid is tutored all summer to learn next year’s materials ahead of time. The kid shows up in Sep knowing everything and complains they are bored. Parents call the school to demand the kid be put in an advanced track, or if the kid stays in the designated grade, they inflate the bell curve while everyone else who would normally be an A- student is now a B. The family with money gets ahead while everyone else get poorer and become lower performers in comparison. |
Right. They're winning awards because they are already tutored within one inch of their life. Aren't you exhausted snow-plowing the path for them? Imagine how much more impressive it is when they win national awards with no outside help. |
That depends. Is your goal to prove that your kid is smarter than anonymous strangers, or is it to prove that you are a smarter and better parent than anonymous strangers? If you goal is just to educate your child, then it doesn’t matter if it’s considered tutoring, does it? |
I’m sorry that you are bitterly envious of higher achievers. Don’t worry, these grapes are sour anyway. You wouldn’t want them. |
The only way to achieve equality to prevent learning. Cut down those tall poppies! |
If we’re being honest, I don’t think this describes majority of the tutored kids, at least not in the top 25 college applicant pool. In our school, many kids in advanced math class have tutors. Without tutors, they wouldn’t be in advanced math. The parent know this and more importantly, the kids themselves know. |
This thread is absolutely comical. |
Perfect summary |
That's how capitalism works. Takes a commie to ban all tutoring. |
There seems to be some mythology that heavily tutored kids, regardless of underlying reason, somehow implode when they go to college and don't have access to tutors anymore. My kid had a variety of tutors throughout high school, went on to Harvard where he graduated summa. I am sure someone is going to say the collapse is coming in the workplace, just wait for it...won't hold my breath. |