
Some people genuinely can't understand that there are a LOT of people out there who are in favor of reforms to the TJ admissions process. So they accuse everyone of sockpuppeting with no evidence because it's easier for them to pretend that it's just one person they're arguing against. If it weren't an anonymous forum, you'd see them accusing people of having multiple burner accounts. It's the cognitive dissonance that happens when you can't handle the fact that you're just wrong. |
It's not about "lower" standards and it never has been. It's about recognizing that the lazy, outdated "standard" of exam performance favors families who want their kid to specialize earlier than is healthy. And those families are free to continue to raise their kids however they want under a better selection method - they're just not being rewarded for obsessing over admissions processes while their kid is in elementary school. When you are accustomed to privilege (in this case, admissions practices that favor your approach to child-rearing), equality (the removal of those practices) feels like oppression. And the more you argue in favor of the legacy process, the more you shout your child's privilege (your parenting choices) from the rooftops. |
Some of the other "distractions" that they "keep the kids away from" are actually quite healthy. Sports, collective participation in the arts, random unstructured play with friends, and the like. In this mindset, anything a child does that can't go on their TJ or college app is a "waste of time". We'll let you do music, but only if it's an instrument for which you can receive status or an award. And by the way, this isn't okay when families do it with respect to sports either. Parents who yoke their kids into year-round travel sports at the age of 10, 11, or 12 aren't doing their kids any favors either. It's the exact same damn thing but both groups tend to think of themselves as superior to the other. |
I'm betting you're not in the ones that are written in Hindi, Korean, and Mandarin, though. |
DEI is not a policy; it's a mentality. Policies can be changed, but free handouts cannot be taken away, otherwise you're a bigot, racist, or process-rigging ahole. |
Wait, you think the ability to do well on standardized tests is unique to Asians? Hmmm. |
That's totally fine too. It's just not what TJ was meant for. If you raise a musician, why do you expect them to go to medical school so to speak? |
Your original post mentioned only South Asians. Now you're expanding this to Korean and Mandarin? lol okay. |
That is your perception. In our middle school, the same kids who took the TJ test are the kids who are first violins and cellos in the school orchestra, AND the are the same kids fronting Science Olympiad and CTA meets, AND they have As in all classes, not just math. It's an approach that demands excellence and tells parents it's OK to insist on excellence because the kids are capable of it. If you think this approach confers an unfair privilege...well okay. |
You literally sound like the obese mom defending the kid that's obese because of the same obese mom. And then claiming that it's a disability. Poor parenting is poor parenting. If you don't value education, then choose alternative schools. K-5/6 is to prepare kids to learn how to do MS, which in turn prepares kids for the rigors of HS, then college, etc. |
Same poster |
People like you get strangely quiet when confronted with the record of Stuyvesant High - very selective, very Asian and very poor. |
+1 Just look at all of the TJ alumni who support reform. |
FCPS isn't NYC. Expensive prep programs give kids a leg up on admissions. Period. The % FRE at TJ before the change was ridiculous. Less than 1% of the class of 2024. There is no defending that. |
Republicans love to push their lies. They want us all to believe the faux narrative spinning around in their heads. |