I think you mean state colleges will prepare your kids as well as … not as good as. Grammar matters. |
My HS BF admitted to HYPSM as well as Johns Hopkins, Michigan, etc. Ended up at one of the HYPSM due to landing a generous external scholarship. He was already taking college classes for half the school day starting junior year. In retrospect, I appreciate how much his parents grounded him in where he was and nipped any sentiment that these are "not my people." This wasn't easy. They were an immigrant East Asian professional family in a largely white and black blue collar (though well paid in many of the plants) town. We attended a school where less than half the graduating class was going to college and the overwhelming majority were studying at the local community college or regional university. This was decades ago. Not everyone was so nice to the "egg head." In their own way, they pushed him to excel yet also bloom where he was. |
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They will if the student takes the best classes available and takes advantage of every opportunity offered to them. State colleges were meant to educate these students. |
I agree. And with amount of applications they receive every year it’s not difficult to pick the best of the bunch and that includes students from inner city schools, rural schools, and suburbs. People don’t want to believe all those tutors and extracurricular activities did not help their child reach the top. So they blame minority students and claim identity trumps merit. In other words, the bitter people can’t understand how many students out there were chosen on merit first, outside influences, minority status, economic opportunities are considered after it’s determined that the student has prepared to attend their school. |
+1. Nailed it. The parents are their own DC's worst enemy. Parents: your kid knows if you are disappointed in them. Be okay with their choice, if it is their "fit" - "fit" is most important. Stop looking at what other families are doing. They are not thinking one iota about you. |
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^ I’d argue the opposite. Hyperselectivity actually dilutes the need to attend these colleges.
When the elite colleges were accepting 1/4 to 1/3 of applicants, I think the employers generally assumed there was legitimate, critical discernment going on in admissions, so they used the elite college admission as a lazy proxy for capabilities. Now, everyone knows there are huge number of qualified applicants who get shut out, and who gets in to elite colleges is largely influenced by visceral feelings of the AOs and even more by chance. Therefore, it must be that the same kind of student who used to go to an elite college now goes elsewhere. Thus, they’ve broadened their searches. Is it still easier to get a job in consulting or banking from Penn or Princeton? Yes, if you’re already in college, sure. But if you’re still in HS or younger and that kind of career is your goal, given the exceptionally low probability of actually getting into Penn or Princeton, the better, safer bet is to try to get into a good but not hyper selective college and to do well there. |
| There are many good reasons to choose a state school. Nate Silver (yes I went to an elite school, but your kid should not) cheerleading for it is not one of them. In fact, it might be a tick against it. Dude needs to stay in his lane— especially since her wasn’t driving that well in his own and (538) to begin with. |
About 11x more Pell-eligible kids now in the Ivy League than 15 years ago, let alone 30 years ago. |
How is it a "safer bet"? The competition is way more stiff, because in terms of sheer numbers there are more good students and you need to finish higher in the class than at the top schools (where the margin for error is usually much greater). |
Most would pay less at Harvard. |
Woah, you're going to trigger all the Ivy obsessed strivers with talk like this. |
And correspondingly fewer UMC kids. You have to be either poor enough or rich enough to attend now |
| Nate Bronze… |
Runaway rrade inflation, recentered test scores, test optional. . . |