Can a woman over 35 ever be a catch?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Can I as a 36 year old childless woman ever be considered a catch? What would my attributes have to be?

Yes, for a guy 50+

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I know a man who is beyond gorgeous, every woman I know who knows him goes weak in the knees when he picks his kids up at the school. He divorced years ago, 53 year old now, and is remarrying this winter. She is 44, no children, never been married however, smart as a whip and gorgeous. No botox, no lip filler, just naturally gorgeous. His ex, never met a spa or filler she did not like. While her treatments were tasteful it was still there and I think it is one of the reason they had so many problems as evidenced by his new fiancé.

Wow this 53 years old man must be one of a kind lol. He must have had his kids late cause still picking up kids from middle school I suppose and he is 53!!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Can I as a 36 year old childless woman ever be considered a catch? What would my attributes have to be?

Yes, for a guy 50+

Smart 50+ men don’t want more kids. I know some that don’t date 30s women

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I know a man who is beyond gorgeous, every woman I know who knows him goes weak in the knees when he picks his kids up at the school. He divorced years ago, 53 year old now, and is remarrying this winter. She is 44, no children, never been married however, smart as a whip and gorgeous. No botox, no lip filler, just naturally gorgeous. His ex, never met a spa or filler she did not like. While her treatments were tasteful it was still there and I think it is one of the reason they had so many problems as evidenced by his new fiancé.

Wow this 53 years old man must be one of a kind lol. He must have had his kids late cause still picking up kids from middle school I suppose and he is 53!!

I had a middle schooler when I was 57.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I know a man who is beyond gorgeous, every woman I know who knows him goes weak in the knees when he picks his kids up at the school. He divorced years ago, 53 year old now, and is remarrying this winter. She is 44, no children, never been married however, smart as a whip and gorgeous. No botox, no lip filler, just naturally gorgeous. His ex, never met a spa or filler she did not like. While her treatments were tasteful it was still there and I think it is one of the reason they had so many problems as evidenced by his new fiancé.

Wow this 53 years old man must be one of a kind lol. He must have had his kids late cause still picking up kids from middle school I suppose and he is 53!!

DP. My ex is 51. Youngest is in 4th grade. Not uncommon.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I know a man who is beyond gorgeous, every woman I know who knows him goes weak in the knees when he picks his kids up at the school. He divorced years ago, 53 year old now, and is remarrying this winter. She is 44, no children, never been married however, smart as a whip and gorgeous. No botox, no lip filler, just naturally gorgeous. His ex, never met a spa or filler she did not like. While her treatments were tasteful it was still there and I think it is one of the reason they had so many problems as evidenced by his new fiancé.

Wow this 53 years old man must be one of a kind lol. He must have had his kids late cause still picking up kids from middle school I suppose and he is 53!!

DP. My ex is 51. Youngest is in 4th grade. Not uncommon.

People are having kids much later in life. Most of the time I am the youngest among the dads. I had my first child when I was 25 and second 31. And we are 2 and done lol. But we married younger than most though. I was only 24 and she was 22. There are pros and cons to this. It requires more work on the marriage that's for sure.

But hey good for parents who had their kids later. As long as they want to be parents age is not as important.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Of course. Look at Amal and George Clooney.

Or Meghan Markle for goodness sakes. It seems all the women who landed the "most desirable" men did it while older than 35 and childless.

Or Taylor Swift. But I'm pretty sure these women can afford to be picky, and they also have a sort of particular lifestyle. The average, never-married 35+ person is just not really in the same position.

Some people don't want to be married and that's fine. But I think people that are older and have a history of being mostly single... tend to have issues. That's not to say they cannot be charming or interesting, but good luck with anything requiring compromise.

[Anonymous]

Yes, my 80 year old mom has a new boyfriend.

[Anonymous]

Pretty, healthy, nice, educated, successful (can take care of yourself financially), and single 36yo female in the DC area is a completely normal creature. You can date 5 years younger, you can date guys older than you by 12/13 years max. You just need to be upfront if you want kids or want to be a DINK. I didn’t get married until I was 39 and had my kids at 40 and 41, DH is 8 years older than me. My only suggestion is to use a matchmaker if you can afford it and be on multiple dating apps as well. It’s really a numbers game.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Yes, my 80 year old mom has a new boyfriend.

Not OP—Different demographic, but kudos to mom!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Pretty, healthy, nice, educated, successful (can take care of yourself financially), and single 36yo female in the DC area is a completely normal creature. You can date 5 years younger, you can date guys older than you by 12/13 years max. You just need to be upfront if you want kids or want to be a DINK. I didn’t get married until I was 39 and had my kids at 40 and 41, DH is 8 years older than me. My only suggestion is to use a matchmaker if you can afford it and be on multiple dating apps as well. It’s really a numbers game.

+1 on all of this except the dating apps (which I just don't know anything about).

- a 55 year old man, married but would have dated someone like this in my 30s, before I got married.