Anonymous wrote:My MIL insisted on Nana and Poppop, which sounded really stupid to me because these names imply (to me) that the kids have a warm, caring relationship with their grandchildren.
My ILs are ogres, so hearing my teenaged boys call them Nana and Poppop is just ridiculous. Kids call them by their first names when ILs aren’t around.
What do they call your parents? After reading this thread, should parents of GC#1 consult with sibs and agree on intended call names? None of which could pan out based on what GC#1 etc will actually say. My FIL was called pop pop by one set of his GC - others chose to call him Grandpop _ [the last name]. Kids self opted for the more formal and one set never had a grandfather on one side. Played out by relationship as the PP stated.
I had a nana and my adult DC's had names for GPs that they don't want recycled- still refer to those individuals even though they are deceased. And if there's a great grandmother? No two were called nana or nona simultaneusly and in families with a history of female longevity there can be a skip in call names for GPs.
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