| How petty Sarah seems saying she was so jealous of Natasha living in the mansion with Kane. If he’s really the monster she knew he was, she knows there’s no way that Natasha could’ve been happy despite their beautiful home. |
This is her life and her story too. Kane was so incredibly dishonest about everything. If having some of the truth out there will bring her peace and clear her name, she should do it. |
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Sarah made it too much about herself. Sarah we have heard what you had to say multiple times and in lots of different forums.
I also thought it was cringey how when she discussed her departure, she repeatedly said it was partly because she wanted to be a talk show host and went on about her own career. |
This. |
| I just listened. This very sad. Both come across very badly and seem addicted themselves to want fame. Sad poor kids also for the son of Kane's ex who heard his mom say she didn't love him dad the way she loved the other babydaddy. |
Why she marry a man she met in rehab? |
This. It was always obvious to me that Kane had mental health and addiction issues. He literally acknowledged his MH issues. I knew he was controlling and using his power and platform to screw his ex. It was classic behavior of addicts who devolve to paranoia and always feel like a victim and justified for their behavior. He had years to trash her on the radio. |
People are always saying this but I haven’t seen anything confirming this. |
Everyone deserves a second chance, and it can be helpful to be with someone who has the same path - recovery is a day to day thing. |
She also mentioned wanting to work with other women going through divorce and custody issues to help them understand their rights and services that are available to them. She said she didn't have that and when she ran out of money, she gave in to all his demands because she felt like that was the end of her fight. She didn't realize she could have kept going on her own. I think that it is very important for people to know that if you don't have the money, you don't have to sign your rights away. I know my brother felt this way during his divorce. My ex-SIL's parents hired a very good, pricy legal team and went for sole custody. He felt like it was over before it even started because he could only afford a lawyer who would meet him 30 minutes before the hearings, go over things then, and represent him for that short time. I think he paid like $300/hr while the lawyer was in court and $75 for the pre-court meetings. Another lawyer in court one of the days pulled him aside to give him resources for people in his position. One of those included representing himself. He went that route and ended up with 50/50 custody like he wanted and the ruling that my niece couldn't be moved out of the state of VA without ex-SIL paying for all my niece's travel to/from visits with him or travel for my brother to visit her in another state (she and her future husband wanted to move to Colorado). |
I don't know... most spousal abusers are perfectly normal people and don't give off red flags in other areas of their lives like at work, coaching sports, etc. My dad was terrible to my mom but he never raised his voice to us (I mean, outside of the times we got in serious trouble) and certainly never hit us. He was very rough with her, though. No outright hitting but grabbing her arms and shoving her around. My siblings and I knew it was wrong but we also knew that it was something that was a shameful family secret that was meant to stay within our home walls. |
I appreciated her honesty. I had a horrible boss once and I was so upset to hear he married wealthy (for his second wife-cheated like crazy on first) and was happy. Now he's in a bad second marriage and his adult kids hate him. I totally get it and it's fine to admit those things. |
Of course it’s fine to admit those things. But not when you’re trying to center yourself in someone else’s trauma. The show is supposed to be about Natasha, but Sarah can’t help herself. |
The CRINGIEST part was where Sarah mentioned that her therapist said that being on the Kane show was "like being in an abusive relationship with a spouse." Speaking to the former spouse of Kane! Wow, just wow. |
real question (as i not implying natasha was lying about it)....how are you broke immediately after divorcing someone who has presumably made millions while married to you? even if marital assets weren't split 50/50, it seems like she would have walked away with a reasonable chunk that could have paid for good legal help |