Are you with Tom Brady or with Gisele Bundchen?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Does she just want to go to work and can't because he isn't around?

He loves football and winning so it's his life. Asking a man to stop going to work when he loves his job is not always the right thing to do. Unless the job is making his health go down.
Plus, when he wins, he brings in alot of mullah that she is enjoying. Who brings in more money? Him or her?
A man can't have nothing to do. Same with woman but some might just get offended if I say that. Some will be offended if I say- it either way.
Ask 10 men if they can just sit around and do nothing for more than a few months. Not participating in society, not working, not doing something they like. Maybe Brady doesn't have any other skills to enjoy as a hobby. Football is his hobby. Boating? People need to be doing something. Some people build their deck, write a book, go biking, hiking, diving, camping, gardening. He doesn't do those things. He pays people to do all that.

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[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:This is such a weird situation because it's so rare for two people to be unquestionably the best in the world at something so competitive and have that level of drive ...I mean, usually even when two celebrities marry, they aren't BOTH at that level of relative success in their fields and ambition.

True but I am not sure that’s relevant…

They're both used to getting their way without much resistance from others.

Yeah, when you're that successful, everyone just defers to you and you call all the shots. You get used to it.

[Anonymous]

Giselle.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Does she just want to go to work and can't because he isn't around?

He loves football and winning so it's his life. Asking a man to stop going to work when he loves his job is not always the right thing to do. Unless the job is making his health go down.
Plus, when he wins, he brings in alot of mullah that she is enjoying. Who brings in more money? Him or her?
A man can't have nothing to do. Same with woman but some might just get offended if I say that. Some will be offended if I say- it either way.
Ask 10 men if they can just sit around and do nothing for more than a few months. Not participating in society, not working, not doing something they like. Maybe Brady doesn't have any other skills to enjoy as a hobby. Football is his hobby. Boating? People need to be doing something. Some people build their deck, write a book, go biking, hiking, diving, camping, gardening. He doesn't do those things. He pays people to do all that.

1. Who brings in more money? I’d imagine her since she’s wealthier than he is.
2. And this job very well is making his health go down. I had a friend in college who played D1 football and killed himself. His family donated his brain and even he, playing at a much lower level and decades younger had signs of CTE when they examined his brain.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Does she just want to go to work and can't because he isn't around?

He loves football and winning so it's his life. Asking a man to stop going to work when he loves his job is not always the right thing to do. Unless the job is making his health go down.
Plus, when he wins, he brings in alot of mullah that she is enjoying. Who brings in more money? Him or her?
A man can't have nothing to do. Same with woman but some might just get offended if I say that. Some will be offended if I say- it either way.
Ask 10 men if they can just sit around and do nothing for more than a few months. Not participating in society, not working, not doing something they like. Maybe Brady doesn't have any other skills to enjoy as a hobby. Football is his hobby. Boating? People need to be doing something. Some people build their deck, write a book, go biking, hiking, diving, camping, gardening. He doesn't do those things. He pays people to do all that.

Gisele has more money than him. She doesn't need his money to enjoy.

Having said that, I see your second point, though he does play golf, like every other pro athlete.

He has been building a business outside of football for quite some time ...TB12 and his clothing line. It is not like he hasn't been planning for the day he will not play football.

Not sure I'm Team Gisele or Team Tom ... but kids are only kids for so long and I can understand the argument that he is missing out or may not be present enough at this stage of their lives.

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https://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2022/04/04/tom-bradys-time-with-the-family" target="_new" rel="nofollow"> https://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2022/04/04/tom-bradys-time-with-the-family

Tom Brady drinks crystal water.

[Anonymous]

I am just pleased as punch this goes against her smug, love of my life storyline with him. LOL Tom Brady just like all our husbands.

[Anonymous]

There would be a line clear across this nation of women perfectly happy to help Tom and support him in his career. I see this all the time in friends who leave because their needs aren’t being met then watch their ex husbands get snapped up in a nano second.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am just pleased as punch this goes against her smug, love of my life storyline with him. LOL Tom Brady just like all our husbands.

*looks over at my husband*

…yeah…

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I am just pleased as punch this goes against her smug, love of my life storyline with him. LOL Tom Brady just like all our husbands.

*looks over at my husband*

…yeah…

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Mine too. Exactly like Tom.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Does she just want to go to work and can't because he isn't around?

He loves football and winning so it's his life. Asking a man to stop going to work when he loves his job is not always the right thing to do. Unless the job is making his health go down.
Plus, when he wins, he brings in alot of mullah that she is enjoying. Who brings in more money? Him or her?
A man can't have nothing to do. Same with woman but some might just get offended if I say that. Some will be offended if I say- it either way.
Ask 10 men if they can just sit around and do nothing for more than a few months. Not participating in society, not working, not doing something they like. Maybe Brady doesn't have any other skills to enjoy as a hobby. Football is his hobby. Boating? People need to be doing something. Some people build their deck, write a book, go biking, hiking, diving, camping, gardening. He doesn't do those things. He pays people to do all that.

Thanks for offering the caveman perspective.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:There would be a line clear across this nation of women perfectly happy to help Tom and support him in his career. I see this all the time in friends who leave because their needs aren’t being met then watch their ex husbands get snapped up in a nano second.

Okay, but she's Gisele. If he didn't want high maintenance, perhaps he shouldn't have married the most beautiful and successful model in the world.

[Anonymous]

Tom Brady, if you are reading this, you need to pack it in biitch! You are freaking 45 years old. You need to sit down before you break a hip.

Is he gonna be a 70 something year old football player with a walker? That's where this is going.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Tom Brady, if you are reading this, you need to pack it in biitch! You are freaking 45 years old. You need to sit down before you break a hip.

Is he gonna be a 70 something year old football player with a walker? That's where this is going.

Are you a Jets or a Falcon fan?

[Anonymous]

I'm with Giselle. I hate her but she has every right to be angry - she is angry for all the right reasons. She misses her husband, her kids need a dad and she can't be the one raising her family on her own indefinitely. Whether they have help or not, he's off playing games at age 45. He's had his opportunities - he needs to let go. Nevermind, he could get injured - there's always that potential.

However, I think she's SOL in terms of changing the situation. I mean, do you really leave your husband - the father of your kids for this? All things being equal, other than him choosing to do what he loves, is he really a bad guy and is she really ready to break up her family and surely, as he is likely going to retire in a few years, is it worth throwing her life with him completely away over 2-3 years of more sacrifice when she's been sacrificing for so many years already?

So really what are her choices - continue being angry at him or resolve that no matter how angry she is - he's going to do what he wants to do. And if so, is that enough to leave him? If it were just her but the kids. That would be the biggest reason to stay. I think on some level he knows this about her so he knows he's going to be able to get away with this decision. I think it does suck for her and I feel bad for her in this situation. I also think that it's something men are more likely to do over women especially in the world of sports.

Once a woman makes up her mind - that's it. And the other thing is, men can actually get away with it because the mom is really the glue that holds a family together. As a mom, Serena isn't going to return. Kim Clijsters could not return. Jordan, Tom, as a dad, you don't have the same responsibilities as a mom.