Do you wear lingerie for DH?

[Anonymous]

My undergarments are pathetic and I really don’t have a body that does justice to expensive or sexy lingerie. I’d look ridiculous in some of the outfits in the prior links. But I still look good in a long silk nightgown because it covers the flaws but still does a good job of turning on my husband. Once the lights are out all is good.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I don’t get why woman are upset that their partners like seeing them in lingerie. My DH has great taste and I love the stuff he buys me, and he loves the stuff I pick out.

You love the outfits so that's great. But imagine if your dh wants you to wear something you don't like. Now do you understand?

[Anonymous]

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We are not your Barbie dolls, that you get to dress up for entertainment.

You should choose a life partner for something far deeper than whether she shops at Victoria’s Secret!

But enjoy the single life Peter Pan.

Wow. You sound like fun.

+1,000 - get the corncob out of your back door.

Pp you don't get to dictate what people should wear or do if it has no bearing on your life. And your response is very crude and unnecessary.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I bought lingerie for my beautiful wife years ago as one of several gifts for her birthday. When I asked her why she never wore it, she told me she found the gift rude because it was a gift for me, not her.

You can imagine how our sex life is

Yes, I can: bad because you are selfish.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Just a sample of my collection.

https://www.wickedtemptations.com/standard-sizes/sexy-lingerie-3/crotchless/luv-lace-teddy.html?swatchid=option-label-color-92-item-97

https://www.wickedtemptations.com/standard-sizes/sexy-lingerie-3/crotchless/cobalt-blue-mesh-cupless-babydoll-crotchless-panty-w-open-butt.html?swatchid=option-label-color-92-item-320

I would never wear that. It doesn’t look comfortable at all and DH would like I’m trying to be a porn star. This only works if both parties like it. Many women don’t like dressing like a sex bot and this wouldn’t work for them.

Can you imagine having your kid run in your bedroom after a nightmare and see you dressed like a porn star?

Not op, but when DW wears this, it is for romance time only then sleeps in something else.

Sometimes kids can be quick unless you lock the door

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Just a sample of my collection.

https://www.wickedtemptations.com/standard-sizes/sexy-lingerie-3/crotchless/luv-lace-teddy.html?swatchid=option-label-color-92-item-97

https://www.wickedtemptations.com/standard-sizes/sexy-lingerie-3/crotchless/cobalt-blue-mesh-cupless-babydoll-crotchless-panty-w-open-butt.html?swatchid=option-label-color-92-item-320

Lovely! My husband would wonder who took over his wife! All I need is a nice, silk nightgown as there is no need for me to look like a stripper.

PP get over yourself. If someone feels good in a certain outfit what do you care? Maybe there spouse truly finds them attractive, maybe they feel attractive, may they are just having fun.

Since your in a judging mood. I bought this set last week, https://www.bordelle.co.uk/products/kora-basque-rose?variant=41195988484234

Am I a stripper, call girl, street walker, porn star....?

You are someone with way too much disposable income and time.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I don’t get why woman are upset that their partners like seeing them in lingerie. My DH has great taste and I love the stuff he buys me, and he loves the stuff I pick out.

You love the outfits so that's great. But imagine if your dh wants you to wear something you don't like. Now do you understand?

There is no lingerie you like? DH probably doesn't really like doing half the stuff I ask him to do, but he indulges me.

[Anonymous]

You need to use nuance and discernment here. I wear lingerie daily, as loungewear and nightwear. My husband loves it, and makes regular gifts of luxury items, but he also fits his gifts to our phase of life. When we had our first baby (summer baby) he got me silk shorts and button top pajamas— cool, nursing appropriate, gentle on a postpartum figure. When we go to the Caribbean he has gotten me long, wholly transparent robes to wear on the balcony and gorgeous, flattering but sexy, swimwear. A winter getaway he gave me a transparent silk catsuit— tricky to put on but hey the nights are 14 hours long!

Just wanting your wife to wear “lingerie” considering how much of it is made of inferior materials, needs dry cleaning, is a hassle to put on, etc. is like adding a chore. Fit it to your mode of life and take her comfort and confidence into paramount consideration and see what happens.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You need to use nuance and discernment here. I wear lingerie daily, as loungewear and nightwear. My husband loves it, and makes regular gifts of luxury items, but he also fits his gifts to our phase of life. When we had our first baby (summer baby) he got me silk shorts and button top pajamas— cool, nursing appropriate, gentle on a postpartum figure. When we go to the Caribbean he has gotten me long, wholly transparent robes to wear on the balcony and gorgeous, flattering but sexy, swimwear. A winter getaway he gave me a transparent silk catsuit— tricky to put on but hey the nights are 14 hours long!

Just wanting your wife to wear “lingerie” considering how much of it is made of inferior materials, needs dry cleaning, is a hassle to put on, etc. is like adding a chore. Fit it to your mode of life and take her comfort and confidence into paramount consideration and see what happens.

+1 and my DH doesn't buy me cheap crappy costume items.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I bought lingerie for my beautiful wife years ago as one of several gifts for her birthday. When I asked her why she never wore it, she told me she found the gift rude because it was a gift for me, not her.

You can imagine how our sex life is

Weird.

I bought my wife Marge a bowling ball with "Homer" monogrammed on it, and she didn't like that either.

#women

[Anonymous]

A few ladies have said that they like their men in sexy underwear?

What constitutes that for men? Bc I would 100% wear something different for DW

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I bought lingerie for my beautiful wife years ago as one of several gifts for her birthday. When I asked her why she never wore it, she told me she found the gift rude because it was a gift for me, not her.

You can imagine how our sex life is

Yes, I can: bad because you are selfish.

It's amazing that men think women want to be gifted lingerie. Marital sex is not like dating. What an idiot to think his wife wants to put on something sexy, it's a chore. Grow up dude, you are married.

[Anonymous]

Thighs high stockings and high heels is all my DH ever wants, super easy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Always wanted DW to be more open to it, but not her thing.

Did she wear lingerie when you were dating? Is yes, then something’s changed for her. If no, then she’s just being who she’s always been. DH knows lingerie is not my thing. But I never wore it when we were dating.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Just a sample of my collection.

https://www.wickedtemptations.com/standard-sizes/sexy-lingerie-3/crotchless/luv-lace-teddy.html?swatchid=option-label-color-92-item-97

https://www.wickedtemptations.com/standard-sizes/sexy-lingerie-3/crotchless/cobalt-blue-mesh-cupless-babydoll-crotchless-panty-w-open-butt.html?swatchid=option-label-color-92-item-320

Ha! I don’t think any man would be looking at the cellulite on his wife’s thighs if she came to bed in this.