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Agreed…I’m in undergraduate admissions at mid-tier private university and being in the lower half of a regarded private works against the student, as we select based on numbers - including number of students from a specific school. You may have better credentials than middle third of public high school, but we select only so many from your school. High performing public school students are actually more desirable… |
Wow…so bottom line is save your money. This makes sense, as you want your kid to be on the top half of the travel sports team he/she plays on, so that they get the most reps / exposure / playing time. Seems to be true for admissions as well. Better to be in the top half of a public school than the bottom half of a private. And shows you are more well-rounded / adjusted as you are exposed to more adversity / distraction / inclusion. Better to shine than to be average, no matter what the school…again, save your money |
These are bizarre sentiments. The median public school graduates attend community colleges or regional (not flagship) state universities. The median Big 3 graduate attends Tulane. |
The person in undergraduate admissions is saying it is better to be a high performing public school students than a lower than average private school student. Not exactly what you understood. The average performing student would still do better college admissions wise at a private than a public. |
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If you look at the admissions for a Big3, some of the lower placing kids attend places like Tulane, Wisconsin, Richmond, etc.
If you look at the admission for Wilson, this is where many the highest placing kids attend (outside of a recruited crew athlete or two). I have kids at both schools and have watched admissions really closely for years. I would ague that paying for private is actually more advantageous for a kid who isn't going to be a top 10 student in public. I have one of these: he does well but he wasn't going to take 15 APs, etc, become editor of the school newspaper (there are many) and do a ton of other extracurriculars which are all things that are necessary to attend a decent college out of Wilson. Attending private gives him similar (if not better) college outcomes without a whole lot of stress of having to get a ton of leadership positions on his resume. The competition for extracurricular leaderships positions at Wilson is fierce and can be really stressful (per friends whose kids are there). |
| Question is "better for what"? If your goal is Ivy or bust then public may be better because it may be easier to distinguish yourself by being the really tippytop kid. But once you're down off the very peak of the mountain, you probably have a better chance of getting into a lot of high-rated colleges that aren't HYPS. |
Lots of wisdom here. We are a MoCo family in the Whitman district. DD is very disciplined and hard working and made the top 10% at Whitman. DS was not disciplined nor hard working and to be brutally honest was just not as smart as his sister. He finished in the top half at a Big 3. DD ended up at a top 20 state U. No complaints there. DS got into a few higher ranked state schools than his sister and ended up at a top 5 SLAC. My view is that DD would have ended up at the same school, whether a public or private high school. For DS he would have been an average Whitman student and there is no way he would have made it into his current college had he remained at Whitman. |
Average performing students at Big 3 privates would be high performing students at public schools if they chose to attend public schools. |
Maybe, maybe not. Private schools have a bit of a stigma now, in this anti-elite, inclusive shift. I would save the money as there isn’t a big difference in career outcomes from the bottom performer at private vs. high performer at public… |
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Then why do they choose elitist private over inclusive public? |
Why do you send your son to a private, but daughter to a public? |
I guess it’s important for the lower-end private school kids. Likely the same life outcome in 20 years - keep us posted |
Yes, I sent my kid to private for the outstanding education, but I understood clearly that the cost was a less prestigious college admission. That's okay. Our local public school hands out As like candy and has classes of 35+ for English. I am willing to trade academic rigor in HS for a worse chance in college admissions. |