Am I Awesome or Terrible?

[Anonymous]

Why don’t you just put the trash in the trash cans?

[Anonymous]

Terrible. Vindictive and passive aggressive. Also immature.

Adults don't solve their disagreements by vandalizing each other's property.

I would say, based upon how you treat each other, that your relationship is DOOMEd.

I just hope that you two are not modeling relationships for children.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He is going to be cheating on her in 5…4…3…2.

Another very mature responsible reaction.

HE would be ABSOLUTELY zero loss.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:What's the thought here? You trash his stuff and then...he starts taking the trash to the bin? I don't see how one logically follows the other.

"Oh, silly me! I've been wrong this whole time! Thank you for bringing this to my attention in such a reasonable way. I shall now correct my behavior in a manner suitable to you"

His crazy is the logical follow-up to your crazy. Neither crazy thing solves the problem of the trash in the bin.

The problem is them/their relationship. Not the trash.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My husband leaves his stuff around the house. Everywhere. I warn him that if he doesn't pick up after himself, I will throw his stuff in the trash.

And I do it. And he's adapted and doesn't leave his hats, shoes, underwear all over the house any longer because he wants to keep his stuff.

He leaves it at his AP's

Who is the high school kid who keeps bringing up affairs? Nice try...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The underlying issue here is his negligence and bad behaviors at home. Taking out the trash but really just setting outside the door is stupid and makes an animal mess. He’s been told that and the rationale and what to do, yet does. Not. Do. It.

Find out why.

Dumb? Misogynistic? Narcissist? Brain disorder or disability? Belligerent?

Then decide if you want to live w someone like that and for how long . Hold off on having kids until you answer why he cannot and/or will not do basic stuff correctly.

This right here.