Anyone cheat before getting married, then become faithful

[Anonymous]

Anyone cheat on their spouse before marriage, but become faithful after walking down the aisle? Please
Share your story.

[Anonymous]

Once a cheat always a cheat

[Anonymous]

I’m sorry, don’t fall for it.

I married a confessed cheater, cheated on his first wife and they divorced. He told me everything, claimed he was reformed.

I married him, he cheated 2x that I know about. I forgave the first time the second time we divorced.

Marry at your own risk, a leopard doesn’t change its spots.

[Anonymous]

I did. 15 years in to a great marriage now.

[Anonymous]

Not on DH, but on pretty much all boyfriends before him. I’ve been married faithfully for 22 years.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’m sorry, don’t fall for it.

I married a confessed cheater, cheated on his first wife and they divorced. He told me everything, claimed he was reformed.

I married him, he cheated 2x that I know about. I forgave the first time the second time we divorced.

Marry at your own risk, a leopard doesn’t change its spots.

Classic serial cheater behavior.

[Anonymous]

How does one chest before marriage?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:How does one chest before marriage?

Why are you the way that you are?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:How does one chest before marriage?

That's my question. There is no reason for monogamy until you're married, as far as I'm concerned. I guess, everyone should be on the same page about that while dating, so since I wasn't always open about that, I guess I did "cheat" on boyfriends, including my now husband, before getting engaged. Once engaged, i was committed. Have been faithfully married for 23 years.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:How does one chest before marriage?

That's my question. There is no reason for monogamy until you're married, as far as I'm concerned. I guess, everyone should be on the same page about that while dating, so since I wasn't always open about that, I guess I did "cheat" on boyfriends, including my now husband, before getting engaged. Once engaged, i was committed. Have been faithfully married for 23 years.

What? Most people are exclusive once dating seriously. We had a conversation about a month or two in, got tested, and that was it. Weren’t engaged until almost two years later.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I did. 15 years in to a great marriage now.

+1. About the same for me as well. I'm not sure there's a story per se but I'm definitely not the same person in my late 40s that I was in my early 20s.

[Anonymous]

From what I can tell my wife did and hasn't since. But of course who knows, which is the same with people who didn't cheat before marriage. People aren't good at monogamy

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:How does one chest before marriage?

That's my question. There is no reason for monogamy until you're married, as far as I'm concerned. I guess, everyone should be on the same page about that while dating, so since I wasn't always open about that, I guess I did "cheat" on boyfriends, including my now husband, before getting engaged. Once engaged, i was committed. Have been faithfully married for 23 years.

Pretty sure most people disagree with you. I don’t think anyone would be so blasé about a serious boyfriend or girlfriend sleeping with other people. That’s pretty disrespectful, at a minimum.

[Anonymous]

Absolutely

-jon250+

[Anonymous]

This happens. Once you get married, the opporutiies to meet people are fewer, as is the time if you're home all the time. Also, your libido goes down as you age so less desire to do so.