+1 why is op making this so complicated. Men have ideals, too. |
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You can control fatness, you can’t control height. Heightism is real and accepted discrimination.
Go lookup the heights of nearly every single CEO and politician, hardly any are below 5’7”-5’8”. Numerous studies have shown that height significantly impacts your lifetime earnings and promotions, even after adjusting for education and experience. It’s basically discrimination against men for a genetic trait. Literally it is no different than discrimination against a person because of their race. It impacts men far more than women. Height isn’t anywhere near as import for women as it is for men. |
Ok you cannot control how pretty you are, or how big your boobs are. No one likes a whiny person. You can control that. |
+1. Being whiny and insecure is even less attractive e than being short. |
By your standard I am probably not educated enough even though I have a bachelor's degree in Engineering physics with a 4.0 GPA. Damn it I would have gone for that PhD |
Height matters unless you are black. We are already scared of black men. And OMG if they are tall they scare us even more. Maybe for black men it's better to be short and skinny so they don't come across as threatening |
I think everyone on earth would agree that a 5’6 man is nearly jockey sized |
| American women are just reacting to American men's version of masculinity. The way American men view masculinity is wild. In my country we don't even define masculinity. But in this country men have this very bizarre view that men have be this that tall.broad shoulder wealthy and on and on geez....then they blame women for wanting tall men |
No. My partner is 6’5 and already successful. I thought PP wa painting with a broad brush when she called tall guys bad lovers. That’s…….mind of weird so I used the professional athlete info. Then OP leveled up with the “well I only date Men with advanced degrees” implying tall men were also stupid. I understand how statistics work. I don’t understand why someone can’t admit to Their preference for shorties without putting down tall men. |
Said no black guy ever. Tall black men enjoy the priviledges of height too. |
It's too much TV. 😆 |
+1. I work in fiance in NY and I swear every Black man I come across in my industry has to be at least 6'0 and they are often not only tall but attractive as well |
No, we don’t. |
I think the OP was trying to sneakily call us all raciest. Or heightist. Because yeah. No black man hopes he stays short to be less threatening. That’s absurd |
Whiny? Imagine telling all those black people and women who complain about making less than a white man with the same qualifications that they’re being ‘whiny’. Yet if a shorter man raises the same complaint, now they’re whiny? And if they were to stand up for themselves, then you’d prob claim napoleon complex too. You have much control over your personal appearance from the way you dress to makeup, and hairstyle. You can’t control height no matter what, just like your race. I bet all those minorities who point out racism are just being whiny, right? |