Anonymous wrote:Rachel Skalla Parcell (@rachparcell), Emily Skalla Jackson (@emilyjackson), Meg Skalla Huntsaker (@meglskalla), and Amy Skalla. They are a group of Mormon Utah sisters who are big time influencers (which millions of followers).
I was raised as an atheist in a big East Coast city so their whole world is interesting to me. They do a pretty good job of making Mormonism attractive to outsiders: the wealth, the attractiveness, the big family that spends all their time together, the close knit bonds with other Mormons in the community. It seems really nice. What has been of interest to me particularly is how protected and sheltered to be by their parents and now their husbands. I think my parents loved me and cared about me but it seems different for secular people. I was never seen as some precious jewel to be nurtured, kwim? I would have scoffed at this when I was younger and wanted the freedom to do whatever I wanted, which I did enjoy for a long time. But as I get older, it seems more appealing than what I and many of my friends have going on in the secular world, which is that we are totally on our own and responsible for not only bringing home the bacon but then frying it up as well.
If you follow them, what do you think of them?
The point of all they do is to look appealing so you will convert. They are ready to talk to you aboit the Book of Mormon if you just say the word.
Wealth, attractiveness, big family and community: this is what they offer if you convert. In many ways, they have it all. This is a real thing. They are the ultimate All-American dream people and they are also very friendly and not snobby or rude.
If you get to know them well at all, you will find a huge amount of anxiety, guilt, depression, perfectionism, denial, unequal gender roles and lot of time (a lot!) spent on church ministries/events. It is a constrained life that is spent mostly with other LDS people and they reinforce their behaviors and watch each other. They keep in touch with, or home visit, people for years, even if they leave the church. Everyone knows your business.
There is a huge emphasis on appearance. At 50, my friend had a full-body makeover: face lift, tummy tuck, lipo, boob job.
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