I'm in love with my daughter's bff's mother. oh crap.
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Anonymous
| My daughter is friends with a neighbors' daughter and her mother is an absolute total match for me. I fantasize about holding hands when we are together and it seems to me she may feel the same. Not sure what, if anything, I would want to do. Part of me thinks this is the person I'm meant to spend the rest of my life with. The other part thinks any action could cause so much unhappiness for her, my wife, and the kids. Is this just a crush? |
Anonymous
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Yes, it is a crush! Don't risk everything, don't do anything.
Time will give you perspective. I must add that you sound deliciously romantic! ? |
Anonymous
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Anonymous
| You know, I'm with her and the kids alone a lot and we get along so well it just has felt so natural from the first time I met her. Effortless really. |
Anonymous
| Not that it matters, but are you DD's mom or dad? |
Anonymous
| No. Not that it matters. |
Anonymous
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Part of me thinks this is a troll. But I actually knew someone in a Mom's Club who seemed so in love with the club president. She was this tall, gawky woman drooling over a petite, scatter-brained blonde. (It actually made sense b/c her husband spent more time online texting/emailing his best friend who lived locally than with his wife. Beards attract?)
In case you're for real, check yourself, OP. Your crush may be more obvious than you realize. |
Anonymous
You're not the mom or the dad of "my daughter"? |
Anonymous
| Obvious to my neighbor or my wife? |
Anonymous
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Being alone with her away from your spouses is a sure recipe for infatuation but don't take it past that. Enjoy from afar if you must, if you dare. 
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Anonymous
| Or, grow up. |
Anonymous
| Sorry I'm new to dcum. I'm the dad of DD. |
Anonymous
| You sound like a 13 year old, OP. |
Anonymous
Why does this have to be about maturity? |
Anonymous
No he doesn't. This is how straying eyes start. |