s/o straight men sleeping with men

[Anonymous]

I've been reading the other thread about the woman whose DH told here used to sleep with men. It seems that there are more than a few married men who have also done this in the past.

I looked up some stats, and one I found said that 37% of men have had a homosexual experience. I was surprised that the numberis so high.

I'm genuinely curious how "it just happens" as some of the guys have said.

I drank a lot in my past, but I've never been in the situation that would lend itself to hooking up with another woman.

I know that sexuality is very fluid, but can some of the guys enlighten me?

[Montana]

All I can say is, there is no amount of booze on God's earth to make me fool around with another guy. There is still too much on my bucket list of what I want to do with and to women. I really don't believe the number is anywhere that high.

[Anonymous]

NP. the percentage you sited was probably from Kinsey. Any statistician can go on for hours about how poorly (and self-serving) his "research" was conducted.

I'm not a statistician and I could also go on for hours but in short, the number is no where near that high.

I've been friends with a lot of gay men over the course of my life and my impression is that the straight men who have gay encounters (including married men) are often closeted/in denial.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:NP. the percentage you sited was probably from Kinsey. Any statistician can go on for hours about how poorly (and self-serving) his "research" was conducted.

I'm not a statistician and I could also go on for hours but in short, the number is no where near that high.

I've been friends with a lot of gay men over the course of my life and my impression is that the straight men who have gay encounters (including married men) are often closeted/in denial.

It was Kinsey. The female stats were much lower. I found it interesting.

[Anonymous]

straight men don't fool around with men, by definition. Only gay men do this.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:NP. the percentage you sited was probably from Kinsey. Any statistician can go on for hours about how poorly (and self-serving) his "research" was conducted.

I'm not a statistician and I could also go on for hours but in short, the number is no where near that high.

I've been friends with a lot of gay men over the course of my life and my impression is that the straight men who have gay encounters (including married men) are often closeted/in denial.

It was Kinsey. The female stats were much lower. I found it interesting.

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You can't trust anything in his reports. To give an example: he to have gotten research on children sexuality from parents, teachers, children themselves etc. 40 yrs later it came to light that he had gotten the information from one-single pedophile that had abused many children over the course of his lifetime.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I've been reading the other thread about the woman whose DH told here used to sleep with men. It seems that there are more than a few married men who have also done this in the past.

I looked up some stats, and one I found said that 37% of men have had a homosexual experience. I was surprised that the numberis so high.

I'm genuinely curious how "it just happens" as some of the guys have said.

I drank a lot in my past, but I've never been in the situation that would lend itself to hooking up with another woman.

I know that sexuality is very fluid, but can some of the guys enlighten me?

I think that number also sounds high and I'd like to know what "homosexual experience" means.

That said, I dated a man in my early 20s who had had a relationship with a man before me. He was up front about it. It was his only homosexual experience at that time (we are not in touch now, so who knows). He knew the man was gay (man was out of the closet). They were friends first, and then gradually developed romantic feelings. He was not explicit about their sex life, but my understanding was that that sexual relationship did not represent a major deviation in sex from what he was otherwise into (he was a top) with the exception of no vagina being involved. According to him, the relationship ended because while he was very much into this man, he just did not identify as "GAY" and that was a problem for his boyfriend, who wanted someone who was more of an activist for gay rights. I have no reason to doubt any of the things I was told, though obviously I cannot really verify any of them 10 years later.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I've been reading the other thread about the woman whose DH told here used to sleep with men. It seems that there are more than a few married men who have also done this in the past.

I looked up some stats, and one I found said that 37% of men have had a homosexual experience. I was surprised that the numberis so high.

I'm genuinely curious how "it just happens" as some of the guys have said.

I drank a lot in my past, but I've never been in the situation that would lend itself to hooking up with another woman.

I know that sexuality is very fluid, but can some of the guys enlighten me?

He collected the data from a bath house. What did you expect?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:straight men don't fool around with men, by definition. Only gay men do this.

You're gonna have a hard time convincing people on here that there are straight men in the world. Good luck

[Anonymous]

I don't know the precise percentage but it is more common than you think.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:straight men don't fool around with men, by definition. Only gay men do this.

You're gonna have a hard time convincing people on here that there are straight men in the world. Good luck

I'm living proof.

[Anonymous]

If you're talking about intercourse, I think the number of "straight" men who've had sex with another man is very low.

Outside prison, of course.

[Anonymous]

I'm straight, married love the chicks, but have had encounters with men (never anal). I haven't done it in a while, but occasionally if things were right I'd do it.

Women aren't nearly as horny as men - and don't argue, because women aren't straight raping people by force on a daily basis, as is the reality with the other gender. women don't mastrubate in public places. Women don't do a lot of things men do because they aren't as horny. A horny dude will take any warm mouth that is offered.

There are lots - probably tons of straight guys, or guys who lead an exceedingly straight life, that have been with men. They don't have anal intercourse, but they definitely do everything else. I can tell you things that will shock the hell out of you.

[Anonymous]

The scariest thing about these threads is how many guys seem to think if they've had sex with a male they're straight. This is so basic it's not funny. You are NOT STRAIGHT. I've never before had to assume that a man I was dating might have had sex with a man and still consider himself straight. From this day forward, I'm going to ask my dates. "You're straight right....You have not had sex with a male, right?" When their eyes bug out I'm going to she them this thread. WTF is going on in the world?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm straight, married love the chicks, but have had encounters with men (never anal). I haven't done it in a while, but occasionally if things were right I'd do it.

Women aren't nearly as horny as men - and don't argue, because women aren't straight raping people by force on a daily basis, as is the reality with the other gender. women don't mastrubate in public places. Women don't do a lot of things men do because they aren't as horny. A horny dude will take any warm mouth that is offered.

There are lots - probably tons of straight guys, or guys who lead an exceedingly straight life, that have been with men. They don't have anal intercourse, but they definitely do everything else. I can tell you things that will shock the hell out of you.

This is exactly what I thought. Men are just horny, and if you close your eyes, does it really matter? I'm just wondering HOW two straight guys hook up?