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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I've been reading the other thread about the woman whose DH told here used to sleep with men. It seems that there are more than a few married men who have also done this in the past.

I looked up some stats, and one I found said that 37% of men have had a homosexual experience.  I was surprised that the numberis so high.

I'm genuinely curious how "it just happens" as some of the guys have said.

I drank a lot in my past, but I've never been in the situation that would lend itself to hooking up with another woman.

I know that sexuality is very fluid, but can some of the guys enlighten me? [/quote]

I think that number also sounds high and I'd like to know what "homosexual experience" means.

That said, I dated a man in my early 20s who had had a relationship with a man before me. He was up front about it. It was his only homosexual experience at that time (we are not in touch now, so who knows). He knew the man was gay (man was out of the closet). They were friends first, and then gradually developed romantic feelings. He was not explicit about their sex life, but my understanding was that that sexual relationship did not represent a major deviation in sex from what he was otherwise into (he was a top) with the exception of no vagina being involved. According to him, the relationship ended because while he was very much into this man, he just did not identify as "GAY" and that was a problem for his boyfriend, who wanted someone who was more of an activist for gay rights. I have no reason to doubt any of the things I was told, though obviously I cannot really verify any of them 10 years later. [/quote]

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