Dh and I believe that you make time for what's important to you. Sex is important to us. It doesn't happen as often as it used to before kids, but we still manage to average 2x per week. Yes we are tired and dealing with work stress and travel schedules, but it's important to us to remain connected as a couple, and one of the ways to do that is to have sex. We find ways to spice things up a bit. Sometimes, as PP said, it's just a quicky before we both go to sleep. I'm happy to sacrifice 10-15 minutes of sleep for a quicky to get off with my husband. And, yeah, I like giving him BJs too.
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