If you were no longer interested in sex, what would you want spouse to do?
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Anonymous
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1) DADT
2) open marriage 3) escorts 4) accept it 5) divorce 6) other? What's your gender and your spouse's gender? |
Anonymous
| If a spouse is refusing to have sex with their spouse, then allow the spouse to have sex with others. EOM. |
Anonymous
| I think DADT, but that is probably because I am very high libido and don’t realistically think I would ever be on the other side of this situation. |
Anonymous
| Oh god. Again? This topic has been beaten to death on this forum. What a lame troll. |
Anonymous
DP. Why are you so threatened by OP’s question? Serious question for you, PP. |
Anonymous
+1. Are you no longer interested in sex with your spouse, but don’t want to talk about it? |
Anonymous
| 2. Open Marriage. |
Anonymous
| If it's temporary, then accept for now. If it's > 1 year, divorce or open marriage but open about it. |
Anonymous
| I wish she openly agreed to escorts. Maybe that'll solve our problems. |
Anonymous
| Depends why and how long it’s been/can reasonably be expected to go. If I just gave birth or have cancer, you should suck it up for a while. If it’s just an unexplained lack of interest that’s been going on/discussed openly as an issue for years then divorce. |
Anonymous
I have sex with my spouse all the time. It's just that this forum is overrun with the same old discussions, and one of the big ones is the dumb debate between the "I don't have to have sex with my spouse but that doesn't mean she/he should sleep around" and the "if your spouse refuses sex it means there is automatically an open marriage" crowds. The same dumb points, the same bad faith arguments, round and round. There is absolutely no reason to start a whole new thread on that. The next "new" thread is going to be the SAHM v WOHM mommy war, part 3 million. |
Anonymous
Not everyone is as fortunate as you. |
Anonymous
| One of the worst days of my life was when my ex wife offered 1, 2 and 3. |
Anonymous
What's wrong with Option 2? It's unfair to unilaterally impose celibacy on your partner if you've lost interest, but they have not without incurring resentment, and at least with an open marriage, you are honest about it from the start, so there's theoretically no breach of trust, and both partners are free to do the same thing. In theory, I like Option 2 because it seems to be the fairest solution. |
Anonymous
My wife put me in my place over this she had given birth and wasnt in the mood. I kept asking and asking. |