Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I take a certain solace in periodically coming to this board and finding discussions of the Big 3 or the Big 5. It's comforting to know that no matter how asinine this discussion is there seems to be no stopping it, either by consensus or attrition. And this week's post serves as further confirmation that hell remains balmy with no sign of freeze.
Why is it important that we recognize three schools as "Big" anything? It clearly is not helpful to a wide swath of private school parents who would never send their kids to two of these schools because they are affiliated with religious institutions. I pass no judgment on the quality of education at STA or NCS, but they aren't options for many people. Do the people that send kids to these schools need to feel better that their kids are going to a "Big" school? Being a part of a coalition of schools doesn't mean a thing; it's the educational experience that best suits your child that matters. The Ivy League (named so because it was originally compromised of four schools - written as IV in roman numerals) now has eight members. People aren't getting their hackles about being OG Ivy though. And virtually every ranking system scores Stanford, Duke, MIT, CalTech and UChicago above roughly half of the schools in the Ivy League. We accept all this, but yet not two weeks goes by when someone isn't on this Board trying to create tiers and status largely based on the DC of the 1950s (GDS didn't even exist before 1945; Potomac's high school started in 1987, etc.).
Historically, there were Big 3 Broadcasters (NBC, CBS, and ABC) and Big 3 Automakers (GM, Chrysler and Ford). But a sizable number of you get your news from Fox or Jon Stewart and drive Teslas. And I still can't get an adequate explanation of why the BigTen has 14 members...
May I suggest more interesting conversations about the Big 3? Perhaps causes of divorce (alcoholism, adultery, being an a$$hole), or personality traits of DCUM P&IS posters (insecurity, overachievement, paranoia). We need to recognize that labels like the Big 3 can be toxic, divisive and harmful to students by placing more of an emphasis on status and tradition than on student well-being and educational outcomes.
I'll be back in a few weeks for my favorite post: What were you doing when you got the acceptance. In the interim I hope everyone finds some Bolivian marching powder and well needed perspective.
You are so disingenuous. Sidwell is Quaker. Yes, they talk about God. All 3 of the Big 3 are religious, but I guess you are willing to overlook that Sidwell is Quaker since it “feels” less invasive to go to a Friends meeting rather than Cathedral. Oh, and let’s be honest, you really like to say your kid goes to the school the Clinton and Obama kids attended.