Why women are forced to doll up while men aren't?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Women impose it on themselves, lol.

I WFH with an immediate team of mostly women. When it’s just women in a meeting, it’s highly likely that no one puts makeup on. Hair’s often wet or pulled up in a quick pony tail. Clothing is t-shirts and sweatshirts. No one blinks because we it’s a relief to not have to take the time to put on makeup or fix our hair sometimes. We know we’re getting our work done, we don’t care.

When the meetings expand to include more men, there’s an unstated expectation that you put more effort into your appearance. Not to attract, but to be taken seriously. The men, meanwhile, can show up the same each and every time. Throw a baseball cap on and join the Zoom.

Awwwwww, you poor, poor thing. Your life is so , soooo hard and you are soooooo oppressed.

Lol, talk about first world problems.

[Anonymous]

Don’t be a butter face. As in, she is hot but her face.

[Anonymous]

Because that’s how it is.

Magically the board is supposed to believe a women who can’t even buy a nice outfit, shower, do her hair, put some light professional make up is a rock star.

I had men show up in wrinkled suits, unshaven, shaggy hair, dated glasses and ties and I questioned two things can this person do the job and how bad and incompetent are their wives?

I had a guy show up for a $300k a year job who was unemployed with a SAHM wife look like he roiled out of a bar at 4 am all wrinkled and suit smelled a bit.

How did his wife let him out of house that day?

I was unemployed and had a 400k an interview in front of board and wife was on top of me. Shoes shined, suit pressed, haircut, got her made breakfast, gave me last look over. Any good spouse male or female needs to double check spouse.

So he is sloppy, bad judgment and has a bad wife is all I thought.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My daughter just landed a marketing role at a young hip company looking for someone with 1-3 years experience. Meaning 22-25 years experience old.

Every women in that marketing department is beautiful, outgoing, in shape, well dressed, right credentials and young. My daughter bought all new outfits.

They are sales people. For better or worse a lot of women jobs are PR, Marketing, Human Resources and those women are usually smart and good looking.

How is this different on a Wall Street hiring good looking in shape Lacrosse Bros in 3,000 suits to wine and dine.

Or big 4 Partners or white shoe lawyers who look like they came out of the casting department

For men lasik, dental implants and whitening, hitting gym etc are required over 50.

It's clear that you do not know many (or any) finance bros and big 4 accounting partners or white shoe lawyers if that is how you believe they look.

yes but she's read a lot of fanfic

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My daughter just landed a marketing role at a young hip company looking for someone with 1-3 years experience. Meaning 22-25 years experience old.

Every women in that marketing department is beautiful, outgoing, in shape, well dressed, right credentials and young. My daughter bought all new outfits.

They are sales people. For better or worse a lot of women jobs are PR, Marketing, Human Resources and those women are usually smart and good looking.

How is this different on a Wall Street hiring good looking in shape Lacrosse Bros in 3,000 suits to wine and dine.

Or big 4 Partners or white shoe lawyers who look like they came out of the casting department

For men lasik, dental implants and whitening, hitting gym etc are required over 50.

It's clear that you do not know many (or any) finance bros and big 4 accounting partners or white shoe lawyers if that is how you believe they look.

yes but she's read a lot of fanfic

On PH when divorcee does it with her Accountant or Lawyer that is how then look