Honestly…women of a certain age (and I am one) do not look fully polished without makeup. At the level she was interviewing for, that was a misstep. Sorry. Call it whatever you but it is the truth.
I don’t wear makeup on a daily basis, but ALWAYS wear it for any type of interview. |
You can totally wear men’s swimsuits, you just have to wear a shirt too in most places. Honestly there are a ton of options out there these days. I wear a rash guard to the pool a lot of the time so I don’t have to wrangle kids and sunscreen for my back, and absolutely no one blinks an eye. |
NP I will add that I love having the option to wear makeup and dye my hair. Men just have to accept the big pimp on their chin or rosacea while I can cover it up and people won't throw me shade. I love that I have options of what to wear to work - dress or pants, heels or ballet flats, slacks or skirt, collared shirt or sweater. Men don't have a fraction of as many options. I want to wear my hair long? fine. Decided on a pixie cut? cute. Men have to keep it neat and short, not much beyond that. Started getting grey? Got my roots colored and no one gave me second glance. Doing that as a 45 year old man will get you mocked. |
Because we live in a patriarchal society and if you think it won’t get worse look at Maralago
Project 2025 has plans women’s dressss down to your knees, men will pick your clothing Women won’t have the right to choose their own clothing Don’t believe it you live under a rock. |
It's clear that you do not know many (or any) finance bros and big 4 accounting partners or white shoe lawyers if that is how you believe they look. |
I've posted about this before but for in-person events, I have the exact opposite experience. |
But why should anyone care whether someone looks washed out on Zoom? That makes no sense to me, and I say this as a brown woman. It's sometimes woman who perpetuate the problem. |
This sentence applies to so many things that women are expected to do it adds up, day after day. |
“Picture Perfect” …..and BS |
I have zero plans to visit the insane one’s residence. |
In my workplace, no one is forced to “doll up” - and no one really does it either. |
Yes, you're such an ally. And your assumptions are wrong. I'm married and not lonely. And not rageful. Just calling a spade a spade. Or in your case, a douche a douche. |
Most of these ridiculous makeup and clothing standards women are “expected” to adhere to are put in place by… women.
Men are clueless about most of this stuff - if women didn’t do it en masse men wouldn’t know the difference. |
Toxic femininity |
I'm not sure how pointing out that 1) the double standard is unfair and 2) unattractive men don't have many options makes me a douche. But okay ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ |