Why are some people always so NICE?!

[Anonymous]

There is a mom in our play group like this and I'm kind of jealous. She's always super cheerful, calm and loving with her children (who of course are adorable and super nice), and never ever has a bad word to say about anyone. I have always wanted to be one of those genuinely kind people who everyone likes.

[Anonymous]

Happy pills?

[Anonymous]

How often do you see her? It's not that hard to fake it for 1 hour/day.

[Anonymous]

She is happy and secure with herself.

[Anonymous]

She gets her snark out here

[Anonymous]

SHe's Christian and from the Midwest? I am not trying to be funny. That is the way those folks are.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:She gets her snark out here

Doubtful. She probably doesn't even know this place exists. Too toxic.

[Anonymous]

I used to be like this. I had a bad childhood and was so grateful and happy to survive it and make a good life for myself. Two of my friends admitted to me that my constant cheerfulness sometimes annoyed them. I think it's just my personality.

[Anonymous]

Alcohol

[Anonymous]

I'm actually like this - It's something most people I know comment about somewhat regularly! Honestly, I just *like* being nice. It makes me happy not to introduce negativity into a situation.

I've gone through some really hard times, and when I was at my worst, having someone do something tiny and nice actually made a difference for me (e.g., had a totally crap day when I thought nothing else could go wrong, then had someone wait for a sec just to not let a door slam in my face).

Mostly I just live by the "do unto others" concept. I don't want people treating me horribly/rudely/whatever, why should I do it to them?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm actually like this - It's something most people I know comment about somewhat regularly! Honestly, I just *like* being nice. It makes me happy not to introduce negativity into a situation.

I've gone through some really hard times, and when I was at my worst, having someone do something tiny and nice actually made a difference for me (e.g., had a totally crap day when I thought nothing could possible ever go well, then had someone wait for a sec just to not let a door slam in my face. seemed like there was hope that there was a light at the end of the tunnel).

Mostly I just live by the "do unto others" concept. I don't want people treating me horribly/rudely/whatever, why should I do it to them?

PP again - see corrections above

[Anonymous]

Happy people piss me off

[Anonymous]

I think I have a really nice friendly personality to people at stores and moms on the playground, but I don't think people would say that I don't have a bad thing to say about anyone. My kids are wonderful, but sometimes they stress me out. My oldest is a very happy, popular kid. Everyone wants to be his friend.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Happy people piss me off

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Happy people piss me off

Then you must love DCUM.