BTDT...don't do it. |
I slept with someone 20 something years older than me. Would I date or marry him? Hell no. Looking back I see how huge the age difference is and how much I've changed in comparison to how much he has changed. |
What?! A 60 yo dating a 39 yo is definitely creepy! |
Why? A 39 year old is basically a middle-aged women. She's an adult, not a naive adolescent. She can make her own decisions. |
Oh darn. He's looked down on and excluded. Guess he has to go home and bang his smoking hot, young, taut girlfriend instead of hanging out with the saggy 40-somethings who talk about their boring jobs and boring suburban lives. Sucks to be him. |
How much is the OP going to change between 30 and 40? Probably not much if she doesn't want kids. So "how much she's going to change" might not be such a big deal now compared to if she were 20. |
There's no doubt your money fever aligns with his fat wallet and bank accounts. Yikes |
I think once someone is in their mid 30s and up, it's really up to her and not really for others to judge. |
I'm 45 and started to date a 67 yr old man. It didn't get very far. Already we were in different worlds. I have a 5 and 8 yr old. He is done with kids and talking of grandkids. He's also retired. From a values and interest standpoint we were a great match but the day to day that makes up my life was worlds away from his and vice versa. |
That's a good observation. I think where you are kids-wise is just as important as the age difference. |
Her favourite movie is a Disney movie and she acts like she's 12. Not hot either, so no. No one is jealous. |
I think past 35 you know who you are, but 40 year old guys dating girls in their young 20's are pretty pathetic. I mean clearly they can't handle having an equal and need someone young to control. I mean sure the sex is great for the man now, but what about when his peen doesn't work anymore and miss hot 20 year old wants something that works? |
My dad married a 40-year-old when he was 60. Nobody was jealous then, and certainly not now. She spends his money and pushes him around and totally takes advantage of his loss of mental ability. |
+1. What happens when she catches on that she can do better? |
Seriously dude. No one is jealous, except the pedophiles. |