I wasn’t aware that lazy people were a protected class in America. |
I bet your smirk and make nasty comments when you see people use their SNAP and WIC benefits at the store. Get a job you lazy MOFOs! |
It's not a reach at all. Ableism and racism are very similar. And the same people who try to villify the 7 yr old and OP about the uncle will shy away from holding their kid accountable for other isms. |
I don’t see how this is rude. And if OP is still reading I am curious how her parents respond when people ask about their son. Or better yet, what does the brother say when someone asks him directly? Inquiring about work is such a common conversation filler that it’s hard to imagine that they don’t have stock answers for these questions. It’s like getting offended that someone commented on the weather. |
OP here. I can only think of one extended family gathering where we overheard someone ask how my brother keeps himself busy these days, and he said something vague like "you know, this and that." |
No one is vilifying the 7 year old, obviously he is a kid who is not being guided appropriately. This was a perfectly teachable moment but mom is acting defensively and normalizing his behavior. |
Sure. And i see the “not my baby” defensiveness as much more likely. |
So ask him yourself? You keep avoiding why you don't just have the hard conversation instead of putting your 7 yr old up to the task. Say "what gives, brother? When do you plan on getting off your ass and getting a job?" |
Op mentioned her mom invited the brother over probably to give herself a break or to foster a better relationship between siblings. |
Op in think it's time to have an honest conversation with yout parents about what is going to happen when they get too old to take care of him. |
Nope. She and son will just be cut out of any inheritance. |
OP is playing her part in all this dysfunction. Weird that these adults can't just talk to each other. |
And I bet you use SNAP & WIC benifits |
Stays home to take care of kids who at school with said 7-year old all day? Ok sure, that would totally make sense to this kid then. |
I wonder if there's enough room for this on the occupation line on forms |