They raise money so kids like yours can go too. Apply and find out. |
Are you sure you don't need brushing up on your social skills? |
I have a third son who is still in private, and one of my older sons is considering going back to private for a certain sport, so I read and participate in both public and private forums. because I have experience in both public and private, I like to think that my perspectives are better informed than a lot of posters. by the way, you do sound a bit rude to be questioning somebody's standing to post on a certain forum, even if that isn't what you intended. |
You said you pulled all of your kids out of private and are much happier. I don't believe you have a child at private currently. |
Me too: posh private school and I’m a single mom. I stay away. I threaten women because I’m striking and very fit- it’s just all around no fun. The queen bees are dripping in sequins and utterly devoid of purpose. Private school snob mom is their only identity and they bore the crap out of me. Dad’s mostly chubby bores anyway. |
now you sound even ruder. I said "kids" (plural), but I did not say "all." just because someone shares a view you don't like, you attack their right or their standing to speak? |
Op, before this thread I had no idea there were such socially incompetent adults. |
Nope. Social skills are fine. Having low tolerance for BS does not mean no social skills. Quite the opposite. |
Are you the single mom who used to be a ballerina, wears quite modern/artistic clothing, and has unique hair (I won’t state exactly because I don’t want to call you out to much). If so, we spoke at a different event, an yes, I can confirm you are very striking and intimidate the heck out of the stuffy bores that dominate these things. |
People who say that often have the very worst social skills. It's like saying "No offense, but...." |
Ha! Which ones are you referring to: The ones that are self-aware enough to feel awkward at these events? Or, the ones that don’t understand how someone can feel awkward at these events? |
My life suggests otherwise. |
Yep. Mine too! Those that feel they have to say “social skills are fine” and things like “get over yourself” are actually much worse of than me - an introvert who feels awkward at these events but can navigate them, even though I don’t enjoy them. Now, I just don’t attend. |
Ok, I haven't read all the comments here, but if OP is still reading, let me first of all thank you for your previous willingness to attend the event and support the school. I'm in the camp that believes these events are a waste of time and I'd rather just have higher tuition or send a check, but some truly do enjoy them and work hard to put them on.
As for socialization, I only got to know other parents because we're still in an elementary school and we went to every class birthday party when the kids were young and chatted with folks there. Our school also lets parents gain volunteers hours by hosting a parent party, specifically to let parents socialize with each other. If that's an option, you could try that. Or you could do some volunteer work at the school, which might give you a way to communicate and get to know some of the other parents. Or not. That's ok too. |
Only our second year and it was fun and we even had 2 friends! I felt so accomplished lol. |