Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Where are you - I lived for several years in the U.K., and location is important. The best bit of advice I can give you is try to think how you might love like a British person rather than an American person. It can be very expensive to try to replicate the American lifestyle in the U.K. The other thing is to become a regular somewhere. Once they realize you're not a tourist, some of the doors open to you.
I think I know what you mean, but can you give me some examples? I walk everywhere here or take a bus. I don't drive here. I actually found it fun incorporating aspects of the British lifestyle (at first). But now everything feels overly complicate.
I'm in southeast England (Kent). What part did you live in? I've thought about maybe frequenting a neighborhood pub, but I don't really drink. Maybe a coffee shop? I'm not sure. But that's a good idea. I'm taking some graduate level classes here starting next week, so that might help.
Things like - you don't try to buy jugs of orange juice for breakfast, you think about buying things in different quantities, you figure out that people actually eat premade sandwiches from Sainsbury's and they're not half bad and the price is reasonable. Don't do conversions in your head - figure that a pound buys you in pounds what a dollar gets you in dollars and read the prices that way.
A pub is a good idea, and don't forget most pubs serve some kind of food. In my case, in Oxfordshire, there was a little restaurant in it town, which is overrun by tourists in the summer. We would go sometimes and in the beginning the service would be kind of surly. Then we popped in one Tuesday night in the middle of February and really started chatting with the server. It came out that we lived there and weren't tourists who would disappear, and suddenly we were recognized when we went in and we had people to talk to.
Join an activity or a society that does something you like. I joined a music group, any my DH did a sport. Also, if you are work eligible, get a job.