Spouse hasn’t touched me in months

[Anonymous]

Tell him/her you need sex. If the situation is not rectified, you’ll find it elsewhere.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

I’m hurt. And I’m not interested in living like roommates.

We have kids that haven’t launched yet, and I’m not interested in being away from them.

Ideally, I’d like to fix the issue.

Say this to your spouse. In words they are most likely to hear. But this is basically it.

I have.

A number of times.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Title says it all.

Gay?
Age/lost drive?
Cheating?
Depressed?

I’ve brought it up directly and get excuses along the lines of stress.

I’m hurt. And I’m not interested in living like roommates.

We have kids that haven’t launched yet, and I’m not interested in being away from them.

Ideally, I’d like to fix the issue.

Anyone btdt?

I’m there right now and I’m starting to suspect he has sexuality issues, a porn addiction, and/or intimacy issues (deeply enmeshed mother). Whichever one it is, I’m ready to cheat.

[Anonymous]

I think more men than you’d think have erection issues and don’t know how to talk about it and just withdraw sexually.

[Anonymous]

I'm a man. I haven't touched my spouse in months. It's connected to how they treat me and take me for granted and tell me everything I've accomplished means nothing to them. Consider that the words you're using with your spouse. If you're using belitting words or affirming words.

[Anonymous]

Agree. Between spouses, it’s highly dependent on the dynamics of the marriage

[Anonymous]

When I went through this my spouse was under a lot of stress . He changed jobs and things improved , by then it was too late and I had found an AP . Best sex of my life but now things are sort of complicated …

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:When I went through this my spouse was under a lot of stress . He changed jobs and things improved , by then it was too late and I had found an AP . Best sex of my life but now things are sort of complicated …

You cheated on your husband while he was having stress at work?!? Not classy, pp.

[Anonymous]

Sex w AP is always great. That’s what the set up is for. Everyone should have a spouse for comfort & security and AP for sex.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Title says it all.

Gay?
Age/lost drive?
Cheating?
Depressed?

I’ve brought it up directly and get excuses along the lines of stress.

I’m hurt. And I’m not interested in living like roommates.

We have kids that haven’t launched yet, and I’m not interested in being away from them.

Ideally, I’d like to fix the issue.

Anyone btdt?

Yes and when they moved to sleep in another room it was so painful. Terrible for self esteem. I am divorcing. I don’t doubt that he is closeted gay, having an affair and a porn addict. These are my gut instincts. It doesn’t really matter, I knew that if I continued to stay I would literally die.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:p0rn. If you eat enough Snickers bars, eventually strawberries don't even taste sweet.

Hahahaha, true.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Tell him/her you need sex. If the situation is not rectified, you’ll find it elsewhere.

Hahahaha

[Anonymous]

Your spouse is cheating.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:p0rn. If you eat enough Snickers bars, eventually strawberries don't even taste sweet.

Hahahaha, true.

Not true.
You are just looking at Snickers so the strawberries should taste the same.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Title says it all.

Gay?
Age/lost drive?
Cheating?
Depressed?

I’ve brought it up directly and get excuses along the lines of stress.

I’m hurt. And I’m not interested in living like roommates.

We have kids that haven’t launched yet, and I’m not interested in being away from them.

Ideally, I’d like to fix the issue.

Anyone btdt?

I’m there right now and I’m starting to suspect he has sexuality issues, a porn addiction, and/or intimacy issues (deeply enmeshed mother). Whichever one it is, I’m ready to cheat.

In the same situation with DW. Call me.