Spouse hasn’t touched me in months

[Anonymous]

Title says it all.

Gay?
Age/lost drive?
Cheating?
Depressed?

I’ve brought it up directly and get excuses along the lines of stress.

I’m hurt. And I’m not interested in living like roommates.

We have kids that haven’t launched yet, and I’m not interested in being away from them.

Ideally, I’d like to fix the issue.

Anyone btdt?

[Anonymous]

p0rn. If you eat enough Snickers bars, eventually strawberries don't even taste sweet.

[Anonymous]

If it's not cheating or some sort of outright disgust for you, then it's his testosterone. Stress, age, diet, rest, exercise all play a large role.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If it's not cheating or some sort of outright disgust for you, then it's his testosterone. Stress, age, diet, rest, exercise all play a large role.

OP appears to purposely avoid saying whether they are a man or a woman.

[Anonymous]

Btdt. Haven't had sex in over a decade. He has never been able to explain it and it is none of the obvious things (AP, illness, loss of attraction, etc).

[Anonymous]

Sex therapist or marriage counselor? (Or therapist for him, if he is under a lot of stress?)

[Anonymous]

You got fat and ugly

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You got fat and ugly

Just like you?

[Anonymous]

I think OP writes like a man.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Btdt. Haven't had sex in over a decade. He has never been able to explain it and it is none of the obvious things (AP, illness, loss of attraction, etc).

Same here and I look good these days. Lost weight, make an effort and still have drive. I can't imagine that I'm done with a s*x life.

[Anonymous]

Have you touched your spouse?

Do they push you away?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Sex therapist or marriage counselor? (Or therapist for him, if he is under a lot of stress?)

I think some of kind counseling is the right choice, if only because no one here knows why this is happening.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If it's not cheating or some sort of outright disgust for you, then it's his testosterone. Stress, age, diet, rest, exercise all play a large role.

OP appears to purposely avoid saying whether they are a man or a woman.

I don't think most men worry that their wives have suddenly turned gay on them the way women do about their husbands.

[Anonymous]

I’m hurt. And I’m not interested in living like roommates.

We have kids that haven’t launched yet, and I’m not interested in being away from them.

Ideally, I’d like to fix the issue.

Say this to your spouse. In words they are most likely to hear. But this is basically it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Btdt. Haven't had sex in over a decade. He has never been able to explain it and it is none of the obvious things (AP, illness, loss of attraction, etc).

Its porn, they all addicted.
So many girls online now doing ...so much.