In her house, it does. |
The fact that your ex thinks the courts will care about this enough to revise the custody order tells me he is not a reasonable man.
He is upset about the fact that the man with whom your DD has lived for the last seven years means something to her. |
He has every right to be upset and Mom is 100% in the wrong. This child has two parents and he is not a parent. He is her husband. Mom is not a reasonable woman if she doesn't fix this. |
They are both equal parents. What happens in her house is his concern. His child too. |
Most kids will do anything to please their moms. Parental Alienation at its finest. |
If she were mature, she's handle the situation appropriately, which she hasn't so far. |
Yet you're here at every opportunity to scream that what happens during dad's custody time and his house is his business. Okay. Look, with a 15-year old child, the ship has sailed on mind control. |
OP said she doesn't care what they call each other, and that the daughter came up with this on her own. Dad has 50% custody so it's unclear why the daughter isn't as eager to please him as she is to please mom, in your telling. |
You can get off your hyperbole with the “mind control” dramatics. |
This child has no agency in terms of her relationship with either parent. If she is dealing with crazy, learning how to manage them is important. |
The mom is using this to stick it to the dad and drive a wedge between them. She is pretending this is all innocent of the child and solely the child’s choice. |
LOL yes moms are just there to stick it to the dad. Look, they have 50/50 custody. Mom has long remarried. They had a good relationship prior to this incident. Why would she want to stick it to him? At 14, most kids are capable of having independent relationships with other adults. It would be weird to live with SD for seven years and develop no affection for him. |
OP can be happy her child has a positive role model and tell her not to call SD any variant of father. This is not an either-or choice. |
You're wrong. This child has 2 parents and a step parent. He is allowed to be called Papa G if DD wishes. Why are you so desperate to control a teen girl? |
No one suggested she has no affection for the SD, that doesn’t mean that she must call him papa g in order to have affection. If you think the mom isn’t trying to stick it to the dad, you’re naive as hell. |