Vomit. You are a vile person with very little character. You are also underpaying the nanny. |
You are exactly the type of person most prone to abuse nannies. Incredible. |
How would I be prone to abuse nannies. I do my due diligence and trust the employees I have hired. If it no longer works out between us I will let you go. I won't keep you on and make your life miserable at work like some of these nannies post about on here. I won't berate you to your face and through "going away" parties that aren't even for you. |
Classic. |
If you have such a huge house on so much land, and you are only offering $400 a week, the obvious assumption is that through your poor judgement and impulsive spending habits, you are "House Poor" and would have a hard time paying nanny if you fell behind financially. So, yeah, as a nanny I would want to check your financials to see what the chances are that you have the means to pay me. |
IMO, most families have no need to run a credit check on a potential nanny. All the parents need to do is sufficient background and reference checking, and they need to establish a way for nanny to pay for whatever incidentals or weekly bills may occur as Nanny and charges are out and about.
There are many ways of providing money to nanny without allowing access to your total family assets: 1) Petty Cash. Spend money, leave receipts, replenish money as needed 2) Visa/Mastercard gift cards or pre-loaded cards, leave receipts, reload card 3) Credit card with low limit, leave receipts, adjust limit up if needed 4) "Household Checking Account" with debit card, leave receipts, transfer funds into account as needed What sort of families might actually need to do a credit check? A) Families that are hiring a "Full Charge" nanny who will be taking over ALL spending for kids and possibly household items. B) Families hiring a "House Manager" who will also be managing bill payments in all aspects of family life. And these families should have a second level of oversight in place regardless. C) Families with a full staff who expect their House Manager or Personal Assistant to overlook Nanny's spending. D) High Profile or High Net Worth families who might actually not notice that they are several thousand dollars low on X, Y, or Z account until their thieving employee has given notice. |
Nannydeb is 100% correct here.
Parents, take note. Good nannies maintain healthy boundaries. |
Thank you for another most wise lesson, Master Nanny. Should we now direct ourselves to today's: nannies maintaining healthy boundaries? |
Thank you for agreeing with me nanny deb. I knew someone with some brains would come and agree with my need to credit check my nanny, no matter what I am paying her. |
You know, there's a medical term for people with your condition. Delusional self-grandiosity, or something like that. You should get some help for yourself. |
Seriously. +1000. |
Agree. Nanny may also want a credit check on the family if they are unknown to her. |
Personally, I see no need to credit check my nanny and I absolutely would not see a need for her to check mine and I would refuse. Employees don't credit check employers.
If a nanny had unfettered access to an unlimited amount of an employers' money, then I understand why a credit check would be in order. It illustrates the risk of an employer to steal from an employer, which is a logical concern. Most employers, in the real world, require employee credit check for this reason. If you don't like it, refuse. You might not get the job but if this is your line in the sand, go for it. |
This is exactly correct. |
Agree. Nannies should also do a criminal check. You are working in a house, not an office. |