We have no clue if the father of the child is a rapist. During one of my jobs, the father started working at home. He spent way too much time hanging around me. It was really creepy. |
For $400/wk, you don't have anyone showing up! Trump routinely cheats sunbcontractors and you sound like a trump-type person. Noveau riche and orange. |
This is the nanny forum, not politics. - DP |
Nanny here. Actually I would demand a credit report from my employer if they wanted to run mine. What does my credit have to do with my job? I am taking care of your child and only my criminal background check and references matter. I worked for a couple with good jobs and a nice home. Guess what? Majority of their checks they gave me bounced. I was young and stayed with them for a year. I was probably paid late on average 1-2 a month. You are paying tenant, not the other way around. Your credit report matters much more than mine does. |
Always google your family, run their names through the criminal dockets, check the Megan’s law website. We’re also taking a risk in working in someone’s home, it’s good to be informed.
That said I think checking credit is a bit much for a normal nanny job. I had a bunch of credit card debt for years as fall out from a divorce, I paid all my bills on time but between that and student loan debt I looked more risky than I was. I’d hate to think I’d be eliminated from consideration based on assumptions. |
It's not typical in the nanny field and that's the bottom line. We don't have to accept this. Find another family if you're uncomfortable. There's one on every corner. |
I don’t mind credit checks because I have excellent credit.
That being said, I’ve never found the correlation between credit scores and whether or not a nanny is capable. |
I also have excellent credit. But I also have some accounts with a couple of high end places where I occasionally shop. I would not be interested in sharing my personal finances with some random UNKNOWN and UNVETTED parent. Nannies: Do NOT give your social security number to anyone until AFTER you have an a good contract in hand signed by all parties. Don't be stupid. Identity Theft is a Real Thing. |
Here is Ms. Exactly bumping up ancient threads again to get parents and nannies riled up again. ![]() |
If the problem still exists, old threads have a good reason to be resurrected. |
Exactly. |
Stop sock-puppeting. |
Why is a TB/background/social security # check ok but credit not ok? It is unusual, yes because there aren't that many ways for an individual to check another individual's credit. Companies check credit, individuals no.
But to say "never ever say yes because they'll ask you for the color of panties next" is even more weird. |