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Anonymous wrote:White House nannies
Coast to coast nannies
Nanny Poppinz

Or post on here and run a background check


I wouldn’t post on here.
Some of the people on this forum are just nuts imo.
I would stop doing little chores here + there for this family because then they begin to expect it…and more.

Just do what is in your contract.
If they ask you to do anything more - - just respond that you do childcare only and just feel comfortable caring for the child alone > that you do not do any household work.

However if you are willing to take care of some household chores during nap time make sure they compensate you (extra!) accordingly.
Anonymous wrote:You don’t have to stay if you’re not comfortable regardless what they both will think


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I totally agree with this.
Since you never agreed to be a live-in, then you have every right to decline that offer.
Because being a live-in Nanny is just not for everyone.

Just tell both the family as well as the agency that you could not find a suitable apartment nearby for the amount of rent that you are able to afford so that unfortunately you will be unable to stay w/this position.

Also, since you are on a trial period you can also just tell the agency it wasn’t a good match.

Wishing you all the best OP!
Anonymous wrote:Ask them to change your end time to 4:30 PM. Email and text them the day before your pay day with the amount owed.


I would be annoyed if I had to send an email or text each payday with the amount I was owed, why should I have to do this every week or so?
In all other jobs the employees do not have to regularly remind their employers to pay them on time. That is the responsibility of the employers.

100%
Ask them to change your end time to 4:30 PM. Email and text them the day before your pay day with the amount owed.
You either live in or find an apartment or house with some roomates.
That's only something you can decide.
I would quit but I have enough in savings to support myself.
Anonymous wrote:Are you willing to do these extra tasks for more pay, or do you want to avoid them entirely?

If you're open to it: "MB, if you'd like to add deep cleaning to my responsibilities, we can review the contract and add some cleaning duties. My rate will increase by $X."

If you're not: "Thank you, but those responsibilities aren't in my contract. Would you like me to look up local cleaning companies?"


Drop the second sentence and it’s perfect.
You don’t have to stay if you’re not comfortable regardless what they both will think
Yeah I’d walk this is disgusting behavior on their part. I am sorry for your loss
White House nannies
Coast to coast nannies
Nanny Poppinz

Or post on here and run a background check
I’m looking for a Newborn Care Nanny with many great years of service. Any ideas where I should begin my search would be appreciated. Also we need to find someone within the next 10 weeks.
The right thing to do would be to let you take off based on your info.
But you haven’t said how much vacation you get? Sick leave? How much you’ve used already this year?
If you’ve used it all already offer to take it unpaid.
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