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Don't know which post you're referring to, but I did say I hoped that wasn't the only reason that poster married him. It seems like you just want to make a fuss about nothing. Find yourself something better. This is what you said: "Funny how one poster said she shares her bedroom with her husband to save money. I hope that's not the only reason she married him! " That poster said nothing of the sort, you made it up. This is what she said: "Plenty of 30- and 40-year olds share bedrooms with their husbands and boyfriends, thus saving money on housing and utilities." She didn't say they are doing it to save money. She pointed out a very obvious fact that two married people have only one housing bill. |
No, 2001 as a starting point. Well, don't feel so bad. You probably won't really feel the pinch until you're up to an HHI of 250k-that's when most folks around here really start whining. These folks living on 40k a year have it easy. |
Well, don't feel so bad. You probably won't really feel the pinch until you're up to an HHI of 250k-that's when most folks around here really start whining. These folks living on 40k a year have it easy. 1951. |
Actually, fool, I was mocking you. No one cares that you are demanding what a budget would look like because all of us real adults know that our budgets are our own responsibility. Our employers are not our parents...yet, your question absolutely demands that employers act like parents and budget for their nannies. Stop acting like a ten year old. If you can't possibly imagine living on $15/hr, then don't. Look for another job. One whose market rates command more than $15/hr. |
I earn far more than 15 and I love my profession, thanks. I've been generously rewarded in more ways than I could ever count. |
The going rate for a nanny in the affluent Russian community is 450/week for 45 hrs a week |
On the books? |
I am the poster $450 a week on the books, 2week paid vacation, paid holidays and paid days when we are away. We are in N Bethesda. |
Is this nanny illegal? How could she pass a citizenship test not speaking any english? Either way she sounds PATHETIC living here for 10 years not speaking english. I speak 5 languages. Two I learned using Rosetta Stone. This lady is LAZY. |
Oh shut up. Neurolinguistics tells us that most people find it near impossible to learn a new language, particularly one this different from her native tongue, as an adult. Congrats to you for being the exception but there's no need to be an ass about it. |
I have a family member who mastered seven languages in his adulthood. To each his own. Each person has his own talents. Remember? |
Does your nanny speak English and does she drive? |
PP, I don't know who you are as I haven't gone back to reread this thread, but I just spent two years living in Boston on $19,000 a year (it was an AmeriCorps service position) and I did not share a bedroom. It can be done. |
Congrats? That doesn't make someone who finds it difficult or even impossible "lazy," it makes them typical. |
I am the $450 a week poster my nanny does not drive her husband drops and picks her up. She speaks good English she is 60 yo. She also does light housekeeping, folding and putting away baby laundry, unloading the dishwasher, and cleaning the playroom This is my second Russian speaking nanny I don't know anyone who pays more in the Russian community. |