+1 Nanny sounds a bit lazy but I don't think it goes further than that. It's up to you if you want to fire her over these things. |
This forum has been excellent for it's insight as to just what parents think about caregivers and the people that are taking care of the most precious things in their lives. If the house burnt down the children are normally something you would not want to loose in that fire... So, my next question is if anybody here has worked as a full time nanny/au pair??
I have worked for more than 6 years now as a nanny/au pair/babysitter/ care giver, and no matter what name you give it the essentials are the same, I am charged with the care of somebody else's life, learning, well being and development. So, when I read a job listing that states someone would like a carer for two/three children and they only want to pay around $11 an hour, I for one keep scrolling. It depends on the level of professionalism of the hired help, their age and levels of maturity. If you pay peanuts, you get monkeys, and yes we are humans too, my apologies to whom I am addressing but I am currently studying human growth and development and babies can benefit from being read to, it expands the vocabulary and teaches various communication and concepts. I hardly think any of us are capable of expressing just how much we actually understand, and babies can be said to be the same. The ears are generally fully developed in utero unless there has been some damage to the fetus... Anyway, we all raise children differently around the world. We do get bored, same thing every day, especially if alone with a baby it can be incredibly dull, getting out of the house is a good idea, for everyone's sanity. To address the masters/educational aspect of this debate, when I began honestly I did not have a masters/education that was anything in child care, but it appears that some of the best in this profession do not, a piece of paper states that you may have given your teachers all the right answers but does not mean you are able to have any of the soft skills that are required for the field of child care. Certainly things such as first aid and police checks are a must be we must keep in mind that not every sitter is a match for every family. The way that one family raises their children can be completely different to the way another family raises their family, cultural/religious/geographical aspects included. As a parent you must not be afraid to say something to your sitter, of course tact is certainly advised but if is at the end of the day Your children, no one elses. |
Hmm, when you pay peanuts, you get monkeys. Imagine that! |
I did not read to my children etc that b she and, somehow I they managed to graduate for HS with honors, full college scholastic scholarships. Reading to a 6 month old is ludicrous. $15/he is what my daughter is paid to babysit. |
How old is your daughter? |
Post is old... |
And the same problems persist. What's your point? |
If you refer to your daughter's studies as "full college scholastic scholarships", I believe you when you say you didn't read to her at 6 months old. Actually, I don't think you do much reading at all. |
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Makes it that much better. I am illiterate but children aren't. Go soak your head. |
It is NOT ridiculous to read to a six month old. I've been reading to my charge since he was 8 weeks old. Does he always pay attention? Nope, but he enjoys my talking to him. |
Um, this is from 2014, people. She isn't a baby anymore. |
She is only paying babysitting wages. You want more, pay more! |
I think this Nanny is acting passive/aggressive because she is not allowed to leave the house. |
I am glad this nanny is doing this to you. I am an excellent nanny and have been for many years. I have always interact with the children which whom I cared for. I read to them, painted with them, colored with them, sang to them and I rolled on the floor with them.And I've gone beyond the call of my duties. And now that I have gotten a little older parents feel that I can't do those same things.... which is laughable to me.
Therefore, I am glad that this nanny whom I believe is much younger than I am is doing this to you. Yes I am angry, because I have been going on interviews after interviews and no one wants to hire me because I have gotten a little older. I hardly used my phone when I was at work and if I did it was because I was either returning massages to said children's parents or calling them about something relating the children. Last month I was hired to care for a four month little boys and I read him about 6 books after I finished giving him his milk everyday, and I told him the stories of the three little pigs and Red Riding-hood. Will he remember no , but it felt so wonderful telling him these stories. I am hoping that he will recall someone reading to him and telling him these stories being said to him. But if he doesn't that is okay too, because I loved telling him them. Good luck with the nanny whom you have watching your child.... |