Anyone ever get dissed for being a nanny?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm the pp who was dissed at the zoo and while it stung in the moment, the truth is I am paid to blow bubbles and play in the dirt. I keep 1 baby and net 850$ a week. It may not be 6 figures but my son and I live exceptionally well and that's all that matters to me.

As much as you're trying to defend your profession, you're also undermining it at the same time. Please don't say you "get paid to blow bubbles and play in the dirt." It's silly statements like these (PP's also made similar ones) that make people say there are no specific skill sets needed for being a nanny!! Because, after all, all we do is fingerpaint and play at the park, right??

[Anonymous]

Almost anyone can work in fast food, retail... But only people who love children and have that natural born gift can be nannies

[Anonymous]

I have never been outwardly dissed, but I read the looks. And every last one of them change their attitude when they learn my salary... which happens in passing after months or even years of judgement.

[Anonymous]

I think part of it is the area you live in. Let's face it, most people in major cities place a huge emphasis on careers and career advancement. Which is why i think some "look down" on nannies because they see it as a dead end job. I'm not a nanny but in my career,I'm at the point where I am happy,make a good amount of money,and have a fantastic work/life balance. I have ZERO desire to advance in my field. I've received several rude comments from people about this.

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't say I've been dissed, but people often imply and flat out say I'm so lucky to have such an easy job. It really offends me because it always comes from people who have never done child care and assume I get to cuddle and watch TV all day. The kids aren't allowed any television or video games.

I make 12 dollars an hour to take care of three kids. It's not the worst job in the world, but I do work my ass off to keep them stimulated, happy, loved, and safe. It's not a sitting on my butt job at all.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I wouldn't say I've been dissed, but people often imply and flat out say I'm so lucky to have such an easy job. It really offends me because it always comes from people who have never done child care and assume I get to cuddle and watch TV all day. The kids aren't allowed any television or video games.

I make 12 dollars an hour to take care of three kids. It's not the worst job in the world, but I do work my ass off to keep them stimulated, happy, loved, and safe. It's not a sitting on my butt job at all.

Ugh. I hate when people say that!! You're right, most of the time it's people who have never taken care of kids solo one day in their life, so they have no idea how difficult and tiring it actually can be!! I especially hate when people say, "Oh what a fun job! You get to play with kids all day!" or something similar. It's like, yeah it's fun for sure because I love the kids, but it's not all playing and being silly--there are a million little things to get done each day outside of taking care of the kids, which I don't think people think about either.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm the pp who was dissed at the zoo and while it stung in the moment, the truth is I am paid to blow bubbles and play in the dirt. I keep 1 baby and net 850$ a week. It may not be 6 figures but my son and I live exceptionally well and that's all that matters to me.

As much as you're trying to defend your profession, you're also undermining it at the same time. Please don't say you "get paid to blow bubbles and play in the dirt." It's silly statements like these (PP's also made similar ones) that make people say there are no specific skill sets needed for being a nanny!! Because, after all, all we do is fingerpaint and play at the park, right??

Quoted OP here. I never thought about it like that but you're right. Thanks

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I wouldn't say I've been dissed, but people often imply and flat out say I'm so lucky to have such an easy job. It really offends me because it always comes from people who have never done child care and assume I get to cuddle and watch TV all day. The kids aren't allowed any television or video games.

I make 12 dollars an hour to take care of three kids. It's not the worst job in the world, but I do work my ass off to keep them stimulated, happy, loved, and safe. It's not a sitting on my butt job at all.

Ugh. I hate when people say that!! You're right, most of the time it's people who have never taken care of kids solo one day in their life, so they have no idea how difficult and tiring it actually can be!! I especially hate when people say, "Oh what a fun job! You get to play with kids all day!" or something similar. It's like, yeah it's fun for sure because I love the kids, but it's not all playing and being silly--there are a million little things to get done each day outside of taking care of the kids, which I don't think people think about either.

Yes exactly!!! Is it fun sometimes? Do I love the kids? Of course! But it is a job. It can also be stressful and overwhelming. It takes a lot of mental energy (and sometimes physical if the baby won't let me put her down all day lol).

The other day we were discussing jobs class and I mentioned what I did. This girl goes, "Wow I'd kill to trade with you I have a 12 hour shift tomorrow." I told her I did also. She said, "Yeah well I work in an adult care center at least you don't have to clean up their poop." I explained that yes, actually I do- 2 aren't potty trained yet. She then said, "Oh well it's baby poop that's different."

Jesus, whine much? We all have jobs and we all get tired. I have no interest in competing to see who has it worse.

[Anonymous]

A job is a job, IMO! Any work you have to do that is not allowing you to be in your own home, dictating your own decisions and actions, is hard. You cant fully relax/be yourself at any job, despite how much you may love or enjoy it, therefore it is still WORK.

[Anonymous]

It's incredibly classist to judge people based on their work. Child care is a profession. When people just you for it it just demonstrates an archaic prejudiced belief around "the help." Good, honest work should not be means to snub someone.

We all have different opportunities, abilities, and privilege in life. It's beyond me why adults think its okay to judge other adults based on their income. Be kind, everyone is fighting their own battle.