| I date night sat for my new employer last night. They got me an Uber home since it was 2am. The fare was $18. The mom texted me last night and this morning asking what route we took and gave some new story of how much the fare cost ( she said $20). I told her I would pay for it. I'm honestly a little turned off by this. I don't think she should of be hounding me about it. It worries me about future payments and if and if she will make a fuss about that as well. I know some people penny pinch but texting me at 3am is a little ridiculous to me. It's kind of put me off. |
| Personally I think you are overreacting a bit. She texted you when you got home so it's not like she was waking you up. I mean sure, if you want to let this sour your new job, go ahead. Id just brush it off |
| I disagree with PP. That's super lame of your employer. You should NOT have to pay for your ride home. I either wouldn't work for them again, or make sure it's clear that she will be paying for the ride. Especially with weekend surge prices, the fare can sometimes be more than expected. That's really lame of her. |
She texted me like 5 times between 2 and 3:30am. Then 7 texts at 8am. I don't thinks I'm overreacting. I was in bed and kept waking up because of her incoming texts. |
I start my nanny job with them this week. I'm worried now if she will penny pinch about my paycheck as well. |
Your dumb-assed posts stick out like a sore thumb. Please start to engage yourself a bit in some critical thinking before posting on this forum again. Thank you. |
Do NOT start until you give her a WRITTEN agreement and she signs and returns it to you. BOTH parents MUST sign it. But based on the RED flag, I'd be prepared for her to be a problem, so BEWARE. |
| She asked you for the route. Tell her the route and put an end to the question. |
And I ask you to give your reading skills another crack.
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Put your phone on silent. |
| Oh man, you're starting a nannying gig with her? I think she has major boundary issues and will definitely nickel and dime you. Do you have a contract with EVERYTHING spelled out? Vacation, sick days, guaranteed hours, reimbursements, etc? If you can swing it, I'd seriously consider skipping this job. |
Turn your phone off! My phone is for my convenience and it goes off when I decide and back on when I decide. |
Yes, as always, the employee holds all the cards. I am sure this will go over great.
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| Big red flag. Keep looking, this won't get better. |
This makes no sense. If you used the Uber on her account, she would receive an email showing the exact route you took. Or she can log into her account and do the same. I call troll |