MB gone for THREE WEEKS!

[Anonymous]

Wow. One thing I have learned on DCUM...always tell the nanny that the reason you need her is work related.

[Anonymous]

Do your regular hours and mind your own business


OP here and sorry but I have every right to judge her in this instance knowing the strain it will put on the family and me.

Actually, no you don't have any right to judge. You *can* judge, but that reflects more on your character than your MBs.

You do have the right to ask whether or not her absence will increase your duties or hours and you have the right to expect to either increased compensation or to refuse any extra time and advise them to get a backup plan in place.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Do your regular hours and mind your own business


OP here and sorry but I have every right to judge her in this instance knowing the strain it will put on the family and me.

Actually, no you don't have any right to judge. You *can* judge, but that reflects more on your character than your MBs.

You do have the right to ask whether or not her absence will increase your duties or hours and you have the right to expect to either increased compensation or to refuse any extra time and advise them to get a backup plan in place.

OP does not need your permission to have an opinion you don't like.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Wow. One thing I have learned on DCUM...always tell the nanny that the reason you need her is work related.

Or else don't tell the nanny that you "wish" you could spend more time with your child.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:That's sick. That poor child.

Sick? She is leaving her child in the care of *gasp* his other parent.

Really? That is sick?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:That's sick. That poor child.

Sick? She is leaving her child in the care of *gasp* his other parent.

Really? That is sick?

Under these circumstances, yes.
Would you do that??

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I can clearly see on Mondays when my charge has been neglected during the weekend. He's a complete mess with tons of crying and screaming all day. And then the parents tell me about their crazy activities, none of which considered their child's real needs.

Newsflash!

I'm a SAHM and my kids are.a.mess on Mondays. It's called the change in routine.
you are not that special. Sorry.