Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I know it is totally not right, and I agree, completely stupid, but I am indeed very insecure about my looks and I KNOW even if my husband does not even NOTICE Gisele Bundchen sitting in his living room every day, I will imagine him thinking about her. In fact, I think I might even feel that was about someone medium good looking. Sorry! You have to admit this is not a normal job, watching someone's child is very personal. You become a member of the family. There are lots of psychological things at play. There are insecurities aplenty.
I agree. Does the hired help really belong on your couch with your husband watching her "mother" your child?