It must be difficult to leave your child with someone you don't trust. |
No. I would worry that my child might be sexually abused. Why does this guy want to hang out with my child. Does he target nannies. No way. |
I agree with this approach. So then you know what is going on and can make the decision. |
I might let the AP do this, but tell her that I don't want the guy alone w/ my kid ever -- e.g., he's not to take my kid to the bathroom, don't leave my kid w/ him while you go to the bathroom, etc. I'd also tell the AP that she can only be in a public place w/ the guy -- i.e., do not go to his house, etc. |