| If you met a nanny that had amazing experience, a great education, and looked perfect on paper BUT was a complete knock out, would you hire her? |
| Nope. |
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Yes. 1. I trust my husband. 2. I am the one who interacts with DS' nanny 80% of the time.
Given that you say she has an amazing background, I wouldn't punish my children because of insecurity issues. |
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What difference does it make? If a dad
is going to approach a nanny on that manner it doesn't matter, didn't Arnold have the affair with his kids ugly nanny
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| Absolutely. |
That's sad. Does he work with any women? He's much likelier to cheat with a coworker than your kids' nanny. Is there a reason you don't trust him? That sounds like a rough marriage |
| Sure. But my husband wouldn't want me to. |
| We have a guy nanny who's really attractive. Non-issue. |
Your husband would make you pass up a nanny with amazing qualifications because she's attractive? Why? |
Not if she were the only one on the planet, no. But if he had a choice between competent nannies he would choose the less attractive one. "I don't even want to have to worry about thinking about her in any way other than the nanny role." |
| That's really weird pp. Basically he's telling you he has no control over himself so the best thing for him to do is just keep himself away from attractive women. |
| Ugh so sick of these stupid posts. |
No - he has plenty of control. He just doesn't even want to have to think about it. Yeah, he's a little weird, but he's also the most trustworthy person I've ever known. It hasn't been an issue anyway - smoking hot nannies aren't battering down the door.
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If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life,
Never make a pretty woman your wife. So from my personal point of view, Get an ugly girl to marry you. |
| I would have no trouble hiring a hot Nanny. I'm not so insecure. And if my husband had so little self control to cheat with the Nanny, then I wouldn't want him. He could be cheating with any smoking hot woman, or any woman for that matter. Probably you're safer with the smoking hot Nanny who doesn't want him. |