| I'm a very attractive nanny but I look as unattractive as possible at work. No makeup, long shorts or pants, nothing low cut or tight, etc. never had any issues. |
What makes you think a 19 year old nanny would want old 40 year old man wrinkle nuts. |
| sure - I'd consider it a little bonus for all of us. |
| Both of my nannies have been pretty. My DH is never home, so he never sees them. |
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Our nanny is attractive.
I had some issues hiring her at first, and DB told me I was being insecure. Then he found out she was gay, now it's the other way around. |
| Honestly probably not. In part, because I just don't buy the hypothetical. I've worked with/ met/ know many many nannies and wouldnt say any of them are "hot.". Think there is a snowballs chance in hell that someone young enough to be hot would "beat out" the experience of a older nanny. So it would seem like I'd take on the small bit of insecurity that a hot nanny entails with no upside... |
| I would. If you can't trust your husband around the nanny why did you marry him? Say you don't have a very attractive nanny, what's to say he doesn't have a hot coworker or won't meet someone attractive at the gym. If you don't hire a nanny simply because she is attractive and don't trust your husband around her then you really have much bigger problems. |
| I wouldn't. While I trust my husband, why bring temptation into the house? |
Because obviously you don't trust him.
Been happily married for 20 years. Both DB and I agree that attractive people are not "temptation". We love each other and only want each other. And we actually trust one another. |
She was a live-in housekeeper. He had an affair with her because he's a pig and she was available when he wanted it. |
| there are many beautiful nannies out there, prettier than teir bosses, if a usband is going to like a nanny divorce him because he can like is nanny, secretary or any woman, so look for a new husband not a new nanny, I have seen nannies that look very good, dress well, talk well, educated they dont want your husband they need a job they already are taken most probably!!! |
| Please stop resurrecting dead threads to post unintelligible garbage. |
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